(Words) @IamDEELISHIS aka London Charles w/the QOTD: A SERIOUS crime is committed & u later discover the criminal is your..

Here is the FULL QUESTION..

The answers rolled in heavy too. 


You can always go back to her TL to see some of the answers or click on the hyper links I put up when I start citing examples.

As you can imagine, the answers ran the gamut. From THE EMPHATIC YES to the EQUALLY UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES NO... There are mottos being ran up and down the TL. Creedos if you will. A lot of 'We see who would do what when you know who does you know what' and all of that shit. As you can see BELOW the question is..MY ANSWER...

Well the first part... Here is the rest...

 https://twitter.com/#!/carolinaware/status/195582601174597632

 https://twitter.com/#!/carolinaware/status/195586998315130880



 You know, just a couple of weeks ago, as a collective, we were ALL pretty much screaming for justice in regards to Trayvon. We wanted the 'police to do their job' and take George Zimmerman into custody. His FOLKS were on TV, telling us all about the 'George they knew and loved' and how his intent was XYZ and the like. You know what the OVERWHELMING majority of you said?


GET GEORGE ZIMMERMAN'S FATHER, BROTHER AND FRIEND THE ENTIRE FUCK OFF OF MY TV SCREEN WITH THIS BULLSHIT....- You

The reactions to London's question were EXACTLY why I was questioning whether or not some of you were 'sincere' in your 'fight' for Trayvon as I KNEW where you stood on issues like THIS ONE HERE. @ the question she posed. You know what though, let me not assume that the folks who are reading this DO FEEL THAT WAY....

What would YOU do in the situation that London proposed as far as your family? If YOUR KIN WAS THE ONE WHO GUNNED DOWN TRAYVON MARTIN? @ serious crime. 

Kinda changes things a bit doesn't it? @ those of you who want to 'quote' this saying or saying 'let the police do their job'..




Speaking of those 'sayings', I see a WHOLE LOT OF FOLKS spouting them off like they 'know what it means' but clearly by their 'application' of them, they do not. I HATE to get religious on ya'll but if you are going TO QUOTE SOMETHING THAT IS IN THE BIBLE, I can't allow you to twist into some bullshit. Sorry....

I am my brother's keeper


 In Genesis, Chapter 4 -- God asked Cain after he killed Abel out of rank jealousy this simple question. "Where is your brother, Abel? [i]" Cain's infamous response as SOME OF YOU KNOW WAS...

 "I don't know,"  "Am I my brother's keeper?

Now if you KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT BEING A SMART ASS, as some of you do, YOU KNOW GOOD AND DAMM WELL Cain wasn't being 'nice' when he replied to God. In fact, he said that in hopes that God would just basically say..'Yeah you are right, it wasn't your turn to watch him..." We all know, at least those of us in sound mind, that Cain was being a smart ass when he said it. FURTHERMORE, the saying isn't "I am Brother keeper" but rather a QUESTION of whether or not he was his keeper. (sighs) So citing that 'quote' as a reason why you wouldn't do it 'cause you are 'his keeper' is false within itself 'cause that wasn't the intent of the initial statement.

Why do we use it out of context? I think I have an idea why...The movies... Particularly this one...

 


http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=d6L7uowUEXc#t=49s



 Fly scene. Classic movie LOOSELY based off of some fabrication of a real dealer. The credits rolled on that one though and MILLIONS UPON MILLIONS OF US WENT BACK TO OUR LIVES.. 


.0000333 went back to being the 'Nino' of the block/neighborhood. The rest of us? Went back to living our regular lives. How so many of us managed to convince ourselves that those are the codes we should be living by, even though we aren't involved in any 'organized crime' (although some of you want us to believe you are) is ASTOUNDING TO ME. Everybody wants to live it but no one wants to pay the price. There's a price with that. Didn't ya'll get that out of the movie or did you only see him with the money? He DIDN'T WIN. I could see if he won and you saying "See, he WON! I can take those rules he had and win..." He didn't. -_- No other way to say it. I don't know too many folks who are officially retired from that game who won btw. A few..Not many though. I know HUNDREDS who put their 'uniform on though' and suited up. Rest their souls too 'cause if I could have 'sold them a better dream' than the one they got sold, I would have. They made the decision though. Not me.

 'An offence against God is an offence against man, and in like manner an offence against man is an offence against God, since man is a creature of God. Either offence is criminal.' 



That was our mentality prior to 'coming here'. @ that passage. I implore you to go do the research on it on your own though. Don't take my word for it. Please. Learn yourself.








Since we have gotten our freedom, it seems that we have lost that 'mentality'. Probably because we saw others succeeding doing it a different way. Thing is, while some of us are doing okay, the VAST MAJORITY of us are not. Why is that I wonder? I mean we DEFINITELY suffer from 'other folks' not liking us but we have taken the knife by the handle and started stabbing ourselves. We've have conformed to the very oppressor we hate in a LOT OF WAYS. Some of the VERY FREEDOMS that some of you ENJOY and love to brag about 'your ancestors' fighting for are being DESTROYED by you when you fall into the line of thinking some of you have.  If you are new, I have a saying that kinda sums it up pretty succinctly. My twitter followers and blog readers know it well and now I will share it with you...

"Whitey has taught some of you VERY WELL... " @ the oppressive tactics that you picked up from 'him' along the way. He has you out here 'enslaving' yourselves. Putting yourselves in a box. Doing his dirty work for 'him'. I can only imagine how 'they' * must sit back and look in amazement as we 'do it to ourselves'. You know...

Kill each other. 

Segregate each other by either 'disassociating ourselves' from those who HAVE MONEY (Act like you don't do that... I dare you. Much shit as ya'll talk about Black folks who 'have money'. Nigga please..) or don't have money. The TOTAL DISREGARD THAT BOTH OF THOSE SECTS have for those of us who are in 'the middle'. Who are neither rich nor poor which is a great some. Think MJ in 'Wanna Be Starting Something' as a reference..


" Too high to get over. Yeah yeah...too low to get under....yeah yeah..You're stuck in the middle...." 

Make sense now? Good. If not, ask your 'go to smart person' to break it down for you. I tried. 

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Yeah those white folks must sit back and have QUITE THE CHUCKLE at us when we have those discussions like the one that was going on London's TL . I know I would as I watched us 'validate' some of the bullshit we do.

"Look at the dumb niggers. Fighting for respect amongst each other by NOT DENOUNCING crimes done by their own people AGAINST THEIR OWN PEOPLE. Even we don't DO THAT SHIT. Sure, we 'act' appalled when folks do things but we are gonna turn in WHOEVER is fucking shit up in the community that threatens its safety and sanctity. Period.

You think we could get away with putting up a 'Stop Snitching' sign on one of those Clear Channel billboards or would that be too obvious? Naw...let them keep spreading the word. They will do our job for us. Kill each other, keep the cops OCCUPIED 'doing their job' while NOBODY TALKS and they won't ACTIVELY pursuing getting better. Let 'em 'talk about getting better..We aren't worried. They are too busy kicking each OTHER DOWN IN THE CRAB BARREL to worry about on a whole... The ones up here with us are okay though. We can deal with them. Those 'others'? Let them suffer... " - The very white people WHO ARE IN POWER who some of ya'll LOVE who secretly hate you.

Survival is survival @ the 'excuse' some of you are gonna cite as to why you do what you do. No problem with that. Survive. I got it. At some point though, you have to understand the DAMAGE that does. George Zimmerman's dumb ass 'claimed he wanted to survive' when he shot Trayvon. We didn't believe him now did we? Why should I believe you then when I see you doing or supporting mentalities about crimes that are hurting OUR COMMUNITY? Why shouldn't I be just as adamant about YOU? Because you are black? Nigga please. If I got in some of ya'lls way and you had to 'gun me down', you'd do it without thinking twice. I don't go around pretending to care about those that don't care about me all because I am 'positive' by nature. Nope. Sorry. Supporting 'not turning in your brother' or MORE IMPORTANTLY NOT TRYING TO GET HIM TO DO IT HIMSELF FOR HIS OWN SAFETY IS ASININE. Sorry. You can't 'make that man 'do anything' but you would be remiss and not 'being his keeper at all' by cosigning a BIGGER MISTAKE by running when the time comes that the authorities find out. 'Cause if it 'got back to you' that your sibling did the crime, there's a REASON FOR THAT. The cops ALREADY KNOW. Somebody 'already snitched.' For some 'street smart people', ya'll aren't very smart. That kinda warning is the 'Shit, I done set the wheels in motion so let me at least warn him/her so they don't suspect I said shit' thing folks do. Which is ANOTHER POST within itself...smh If you get word your sibling did a crime from 'the Streets" then you should assume 'THE STREETS' have already sold your sibling out the window. No honor in upholding any 'honor' them at that point IMO. Ya'll keep on though. Do your thing... Keep on giving a shit about folks who don't give ONE FUCK ABOUT YOU.  @ the folks whose respect you want. I'll keep my sibling 'alive' thank you. "Cause I know that once the 'law' gets involved, there is a HIGH CHANCE he might get shot if he SNEEZES wrong at a cop. I don't want that for him. I'm not TRYING TO BURY HIM, PUT HIM ON A T-SHIRT and mourn him. I want him alive and well. I want his kids to see him. Even if they don't 'shoot him', they will put him UNDER THE JAIL for running. Again..I don't want that either. He clearly already did something that is going to get him locked up. If I am his 'keeper', I'd advise him/her to do the thing that would get him the least amount of time/keeps him out of danger. That's just common sense. As usual though, common sense just isn't that common I see.....







*Not all white folks or folks of non color are out to get us btw. I know that. Clearly there are some that STILL ARE THOUGH. You folks TALK ABOUT THEM DAILY! I also have seen them with my own eyes.. 

(Grown Folks Talk) Fellas (and some ladies): Stop the 'fuzzy math' when it comes to sexual #'s. Better yet. Stop asking. ..

Just like this magical 'hoe number' some ya'll have outchea.. @ folks who don't have answer for this equation.

 Ask about his/her health. (Recurring theme throughout this post. Won't be the last time you see that phrase..)


 Lets be honest. Ya'll aren't built for the answer. Which is why you use the 'fuzzy math' method to 'muddle shit up'. To justify your fragile ego. Don't worry, you aren't ALONE. We do it as humans for all types of reasons. This is just one example. As touched on in a post by my boy OG Nitty*, the person's number is TRULY THEIR BUSINESS ANYWAY PLUS THERE IS NO MAGICAL NUMBER THAT IS 'RIGHT'. I've YET TO HAVE FOLKS GIVE ME SO MUCH AS A 'RANGE' as to what is an acceptable number for a given time period for sexual partners. Oh, they start off that way but then when we start off doing the math, they trail off. Think, 1 to 3 folks a year for a person who is 30 who started at say...15.. Yeah...it 'sounds good' until you start multiplying. The 'standard' doesn't equal the 'reality' of the situation. The reality of the situation is that if you want to have sex with someone and the FEELING IS MUTUAL, the longer you live, the higher the number is going to be in regards to their 'number of times at the rodeo'. It is just a fact. Some of you are out here looking for the Fairy GodSlut to bless you with the 'She does EVERYTHING but she is a Virgin' pot of Gold outchea while you (and everyone else) are out here just getting your Prince Akeem on sowing your 'royal' oats. This is basic math. Shouldn't be anything 'fuzzy' about it. Regular good people have sex idiot. @ the usage of a # to shame folks for doing it.

Before I REALLY GET INTO THOUGH, I want to address you ladies that are sitting here snigglin' as you read this. Now I know some of you are gonna start that, "I took some years off for me' shit that you like to fall back on when you want to 'brag about your number' and shit. That's cool. If your number is low, GOOD FOR YOU. But lets be clear. Everyone else didn't get SHITTED ON OUT HERE THOUGH LIKE YOU DID so you can't hold folks to YOUR STANDARD 'cause you decided that 'all niggas weren't shit' and started having 'relations' with...oops...I mean you took some time off from 'dick'..my bad. Or even if you didn't partake in sexual relations of ANY SORT WITH ANYONE again, we all aren't you. @ taking being hurt to the extreme of a 3 year hiatus. ** Don't penalize the rest of us for your 'hurt alert' ass. @ your 'time away from the court'. Besides, we know ya'll leave out some encounters due to (insert your reason here E.I. 'No emotional connection, on vacation, didn't 'like him anyway' or whatever reason you use to pretend that sex didn't happen..). Just thought I would address that right quick before we went any further...

Now where was I? Oh yeah..I wanted to ask questions of some of you judgmental ass folks outchea...


Now lets just say that someone DID manage to fall PERFECTLY in line with this fictitious magical number that you can't seem to put into any type of range that some of you deem appropriate for sexual relations, are you gonna stop clowning them for not being 'experienced'? Are you going to stop using words like 'stuck up' or phrases like 'She thinks she is too good to be out here with folks"?

What about if YOU, WITH YOUR HIGH ASS NUMBER, does manage to have sex with her? Then what? Are ya'll going to stop with the 'I broke her down' bullshit? The 'I got over' mentality? Is she now a hoe by proxy because she fucked with your sorry ass? Riddle me that one Sherlock...

I mean there seems to be 'no win' in this situation. @ the 'numbers' game. Too high and you are a hoe. Too low and you are stuck up and a 'goodie two shoes'. Oh and there's no number for each age so you can't be 'normal'. You either have to be one or the other.. And you want to know why I want ya'll to grow up and stop asking for folks 'sexual numbers' though? -_- It should be clear. The RULES ARE MUDDLED AS FUCK. They always have been too. I don't want to make it sound like this is new. If you really knew me though, you would know I've been screaming this since I first had sex. (14) 'Cause at some point, I was confused by all the 'high number' talk. Especially when I knew folks were 'lying' about what they did and didn't do 'cause...well...I WAS THERE. @ who really had sex with who. Why is THAT IMPORTANT? Because you negros don't 'let shit go' that's why. You are still running on rumors of shit that happened 20 years ago even after YOU FOUND OUT THE DUDE (OR GALS) whose information you trusted so much were some 'frauding ass busters'. @ who they REALLY GOT BUSY WITH. Some of them are still passing that 'wack ass game' to their kids and their kid's kid out here. That's why it is important. I know the mentality of 'If he/she said it and they are popular/witty/hold weight, then it must have happened" truly is still thriving and guess what...(WHISPERS) That skews the 'numbers' too......-_-. Hadn't thought of that had you Sherlock? I know....

You see so maybe it is time to grow up and act like an adult for once. Stop it with the high school Laura/Steve Eurkel shit. @ the outlook on things. Folks are grown.

Dudes, stop running up on girls asking for how many sexual partners they had and MOST DEFINITELY STOP the 'background' checks if she is truly healthy. She had a life before your sorry ass and you will have one after her. Stop looking the Gift Horse in the mouth. @ all this bad mouthing women about the sex they have BEFORE AND AFTER YOU. It is not your concern. Only thing you should care about is if she is healthy. You can ask her THAT. That's cool. After that, everything else is being less than a man truthfully. Girls worry about the next person. Real men REALLY DON'T and don't even ask about it. Besides, most of you have the ego of a gnat. That is to say the 'slightest' little thing sets you off on a period like rampage. Ole Carl Thomas ass niggas...Why set yourself up to fail by asking for a number that you know you can't accept either way? If her number is low, you are gonna worry about if she knows what she is doing? (Wrongfully so...as she just might be...well..GOOD AT WHAT SHE DOES...It happens you know..) If her number is too high, you are gonna worry about all type of silly shit. High or low, you should ALWAYS be worried about her health if that is gonna be a concern. Any # over zero should raise that flag. The things you could get are like bullets. They don't speak numbers and they don't have names on them. They do them and get at whoever. Period. Stop thinking like a little boy for once. Damm.


 Ladies, you can stop 'spreading the word' about who sucked who off too. You were over there in the corner busy yourself. Remember? It doesn't matter that you 'never called that dude again 'cause you knew he had no contact info on your and ya'll were out of town.'. Nope. Sorry. If you are going to be grown, then be grown. Own up to your own shit and stop worrying about what the next broad is doing so you can look good. *** Own your numbers man. Without ya'll, we don't get laid by the OPPOSITE SEX. You are the opposite sex.


























*Sometimes I think Nitty is eavesdropping on my thoughts. I already had this post planned then he wrote this....


HEAD TO HEAD- -HOW IT GOES DOWN BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN: I SAY "FUCKIT"!


...and then I KNEW I had to write it.


 ** It should be noted that some of you who I do know who did that, you were NOT A JOY TO BE AROUND. Trust me. @ that time period. smh

 *** If you weren't in the same room with her when she did it, that is even MORE REASON TO SHUT THE FUCK UP. You didn't see it happen. I don't care if it is your 'bestie' telling you that he did it and he swore on his mother. He more than likely swears on his mother every time he is jammed up....

(Words) I support justice for Trayvon Martin but I don't support the lack of outrage when we do it to ourselves...

If you have noticed, I have been REALLY QUIET about the incident in Florida on the blog. Yeah, I put the Heat pic up (Dope touch by them btw..and hats off to the Florida boy Stoudamire for his hooded look too. He knows all about that area..) but that's about it. I was just watching. I DID SIGN THE PETITION and I have been following though. I DO SUPPORT JUSTICE FOR TRAYVON AND I HOPE HIS FAMILY GETS THE CLOSURE THEY NEED.

What I won't do is act like everything ya'll are out here saying and doing 'in the name of Trayvon Martin is correct..Nope.

Here are some of the things bother me about this WHOLE ISSUE as far as how I see it being handled/discussed/carried forward to folks..:


One is that ya'll are ready and willing to go at least 'entertain' the idea of hurting HIS KILLER but you won't BREATH A WORD ABOUT THOSE THAT HUNT DOWN AND KILL INNOCENT FOLKS (CHILDREN) THAT LIVE AMONGST YOU. That's my issue. I saw his address float by on my TL. That's cool. Ya'll going down there though? Didnd't think so. Oh...I understand, you live among them so that is why you won't say anything. Understand I also know that because you won't do anything about those who you can get access to, you won't be out here doing anything about Trayvon's killer either. Remember, he SHOT SOMEONE and killed them. He is 'not a suspect' so that means he is STILL A LEGAL GUN OWNER. I know ya'll are emotional out here but stop acting like those who aren't saying 'They would kill him..' aren't as passionate as you. You are selling wolf tickets fam. You aren't doing shit. Stop it. You are going to put your hoodie on, march for the next couple of weeks, sign a petition and MAYBE talk about it through the next 'big thing' that happens. That's about it. So stop saying you would or will.. Which leads me to #2...


 I don't see any of the folks who have 'shooters on deck' making any trips down to I-4 (or (I-75 depending on where you are coming from) to 'handle this'. Not that doing so would be 'correct' but yeah... I know that is what some of you are saying about the lack of 'involvement' by the rappers there but I don't know enough about 'what they haven't done' to know if they didn't speak out about it...Clearly, if they put the plans in motion that I am speaking about, THEY CAN'T SAY THAT so I don't expect some declaration in that fashion. I actually do expect it though from those 'regular cats who claim they don't give a fuck about the cops or anything.." I'd like to know where they are... (Don't answer that. I already know..It was a rhetorical question..)

Then there is the fact that some of you....and this really makes me look at you funny, get behind a cause and become TOTALLY BLIND TO ANY OTHER ISSUES AND START CONDONING BEHAVIOR THAT HAS  NOTHING TO DO WTIH WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED IN THIS CASE... Example: 


"I don't care if he ROBBED AND KILLED HIS MOTHER...Trayvon should not have been touched..." 


Really? Really??? I mean, I know you want to be right and all and maybe this is your first time 'standing up for what is right' and shit but this shit here? This 'slipping in other niggerish shit so when it comes up, there can be a tolerance for it and it can be excused' shit here? No. Cut that shit out. No place for it. Stick to the facts. The facts are that TRAYVON DIDN'T DO ANYTHING and got killed. Don't try to make a case for your 'fucked up cousin' who went on a rampage and shot ten people and then the cops shot him outta this case. Stop that. I see you out there. The two situations have NOTHING TO DO WITH EACH OTHER. I've seen a lot of this in the past couple of days. Yes, I know where it is coming from. No, it doesn't make it right. I don't care WHO YOU ARE SAYING. You are wrong. Your 'man and 'em' were not on the side of RIGHT. Trayvon was. The end.


'The Why Didn't Obama Speak Sooner' Contingent: 


I don't know how many times I have to tell you folks who 'claim you know how the government works' how THIS WORKS. He is not YOU. Matter of fact, HE OUT OF ALL PEOPLE WOULD KNOW THAT HE CAN'T TRUST 'WHAT HE IS HEARING ON THE NEWS' CAUSE THEY CAN'T GET THE SHIT RIGHT ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT HIM.. So while yes, 'information was out there about what was happening', he can't go around making 'uninformed' statements with 3/4ths of the facts at his disposal, where 1/3 of if it speculation like you can. He just can't. He has to find out ALL THE INFORMATION, PROCESS IT, THEN MAKE AN INFORMED AND POLITICALLY CORRECT STATEMENT. He can't go 'off the cuff. Stop acting like he is you. He isn't. Not only that, he can't get 'involved' in EVERY CASE. He just can't. You'd be mad if his ass came in and got involved in your BELOVED neighborhood 'D Boy's Rico case now wouldn't you? Lie to me and say you wouldn't? You'd be on that 'He is over stepping his bounds..Doesn't he have another country to save? and all that other bullshit. I never doubted he was going to speak, as some of you did. He is in a different position than ANY OF US ARE THOUGH and sometimes I truly think you folks don't respect it. What if he misspoke and hit cost him in the Election? Did you ever think about that? I mean YOU DO KNOW THAT THIS IS AN ELECTION YEAR RIGHT? So he speaks and then you niggas come up with this 'He didn't say enough' shit? Wow. 




Define enough. I'll wait. Just like I am STILL WAITING ON THE MAGICAL NUMBER THAT SOMEONE MAKES A GIRL A HO(E) THAT YOU NIGGERS CAN'T SEEM TO COME WITHIN A 1-3 NUMBER RANGE OF.. 


If I may... to quote myself..



"Again...you 'magic pill' ass niggas slay me. @ this imaginary 'enough' that you can't seem to put into SPECIFIC CONTEXT on issues."


carolinaware ‏ @carolinaware

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Ya'll don't want to get me started on this shit..

23 Mar carolinaware ‏ @carolinaware

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Because we when 'we do it to ourselves', it is 'just how it goes.."

23 Mar carolinaware ‏ @carolinaware

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We can just keep talking about homie and sweep the other shit under the rug.. -_-

23 Mar carolinaware ‏ @carolinaware

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Ya'll don't wanna talk about that shit though..

23 Mar carolinaware ‏ @carolinaware

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We don't seem to give a fuck about doing it ourselves.. on a whole...-_-

23 Mar carolinaware ‏ @carolinaware

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But I will. @ say it. We are out here killing each other though like it is cool. I can see why mofos on the 'outside' think it is..

23 Mar carolinaware ‏ @carolinaware

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Again...we don't need to HELP with our own extinction. And YOU KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. I don't have to say it.

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Oh..ya'll thought it 'over'? @ racism. But you want to get up in arms about this but still argue this 'light/dark' skin bullshit.

 So yeah, count me out of all this 'faux disdain' you folks seem to have. 'Cause next week, WHEN SOMEONE ELSE DIES at the hands of ANOTHER BLACK MAN, you will all be hitting me (and the rest of us) with this bullshit...Out of those same mouths that are saying this week 'Nobody deserves to die...especially like...." Same mouths...


"That's the way the 'game' goes..."


"Life is like that...somebody has to die.." 


"That's what he gets..."


 (Puts Steelers Hoodie back on)

*Am I advocating that? Maybe I am. It isn't right though. Neither is letting killers who WALK AMONG US OF LITTLE CHILDERN either though. I mean if I'm as upset as you folks 'claim' to be, the better question is probably..'Why are you ADVOCATING THAT?" I digress though.... 

(Words/Thoughts) On having someone Google YOUR 'INTERNET USERNAME'..in my case Carolinaware

This is actually a GOOD EXAMPLE...It also happens to be the latest one I could find..

 Shoutout to the person I just posted up here. I'm appreciate you coming through. Truly. This is NOT ABOUT YOU PER SAY. You are one of the 'good' folks. I think.... Unless you got sidetracked on your mission of 'looking for dirt' by the women...lmao






I think that anyone who is TRULY INVOLVED ON THE INTERNET LIKES IT WHEN SOMEONE INQUIRES ABOUT THEM VIA THE 'Google search' method. What is usually the first thing out of someone's mouth when another person says "You aren't famous...."


GOOGLE ME THEN!! @ the response. 

 It is flattering. However, it can be 'detrimental' or at least annoying when you KNOW SOMEONE IS OUT HERE TRYING TO DEFAME YOUR CHARACTER by putting in your name in that search box. Of course now the easy (and the most flippant response given by most people) is to...well....NOT PARTAKE IN DEFAMING ACTS. That would be cool if we were all robots. Alas, we are not. Some of us also have some folks outchea who DON'T LIKE US A WHOLE LOT AND WOULD THINK OF PUTTING OUT FALSE INFORMATION IF THEY KNEW SOMEONE WOULD BELIEVE IT. Seeing as though folks have a penchant for wanting to believe 'the bad in someone' WAY BEFORE THEY WOULD EVER BELIEVE THE GOOD, you probably know how that ends. 

All bad. 

Anyway, back to my point. I just wanted to make a personal post for all of you out there GETTING ON BING, YAHOO, GOOGLE and trying to find out WHAT YOU CAN about the person called 'Carolinaware'. 



You should probably worry about your own life. If you MUST know though, instead of doing little lame Internet searches and shit, WHY DO YOU GROW A SET AND COME ASK ME ON TWITTER? 

I know why some of you don't ask though. Some of you have been so STAUNCH in your views that you have painted yourself into a corner. You can't ask me certain shit 'cause it would contradict your VERY PUBLIC SOAPBOX on issues that you speak on for reasons I won't blast you for here. Just know I know you are using that 'soapbox' as a shield to protect you from....YOURSELF. I see you outchea ... I'm just saying that you don't have to do that. I know you are human. Trust me. We all are.*

 I'm not going to sit up here and act like on some level, exposure for the things I do is not what I'm after. That would be silly. This isn't some 'secret' blog or some shit. It is PUBLIC FOR A REASON. My 'name' is in the title for crying out loud. However, I like to think that the spirit that I run it (and my Twitter) is in such a manner that I try to do things that I wouldn't be too terribly upset if folks did to me. Not as an act either. I am like that 'offline' (I hate that term but it fits....here..) I am not a spiteful person. I'm not out to get over on anyone's pain and suffering nor do I enjoy watching innocent folks suffer. I have the SAME THOUGHTS some of you have about certain things but I USUALLY can remember that I (and the rest of us) are only a step or two from being in some of those SAME SITUATIONS (or we were at one time unless you lived in a damm bubble) so there is no need to kick folks repeatedly while they are down. That's why I don't 'report' on certain shit. It is unnecessary and overkill a lot of the times so I don't 'throw my two cents'. I know the REST OF THE WORLD DOESN'T OPERATE IN THIS FASHION THOUGH. So my guard is UP. There are certain things that I keep to myself. ** There are a lot of things I don't though so if you feel the need to 'sift through the Internet' to see how I felt about such and such or if I was 'much more liberal with the pictures in my younger days', KNOCK YOURSELF OUT. I will own up to it, stand by it, denounce it if my views have changed as I have GROWN THE FUCK UP, etc, etc, etc. No problems with that here homie. Dig away...






 So go on ahead. Google my name. See what you get. You may find out I frequented a VERY POPULAR MESSAGEBOARD, which I talk about (and talk with those folks IN FRONT OF YOU) ALMOST EVERY DAY. You might find some pictures FOR THIS VERY SITE and this point and time. You might even find some archived posts on said site. Hope you find 'whatever' it is you are looking for. Just know...




You could always just ASK ME. It works you know. To my folks who already know this, you better tell these fools. I will tell them what they need to know and then tell them about themselves all in one breath... 





*Shoutout to my folks who KNOW THEY ARE HUMAN AND WHILE THEY DON'T ACT ALL THE WAY THE HELL UP, AT LEAST THEY OWN UP TO THEIR HUMAN ERRORS AND LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY MAY. I salute you. More folks need to give themselves (and the people they love) that kinda leeway instead of going so hard and back sliding HEAVY when they do 'fall'. 


**Sometimes you have to give your ears the same amount of chances you give your mouth. - A WHOLE LOT OF FOLKS 'ELDERS' HAVE SAID THIS..I know mine did. I listened.

(Words) Fellas (and some of you ladies), this is how you sound on the subject of sex/females.

I probably don't need to 'elaborate' on this but JUST IN CASE SOME OF YOU WANT TO FEIGN IGNORANCE AND ACT LIKE YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY...LET ME BE REAL FUCKING CLEAR.


A WHOLE LOT OF YOU DON'T KNOW EXACTLY 'HOW TO FEEL' ABOUT WOMEN HAVING SEX YET YOU WANT SEX FROM THEM. You want to be able to feel 'high and mighty' and like you are 'getting over' when you do it so that when things go 'awry', it won't be 'your fault' or that you will 'somehow' be the one who has 'won'. As if this shit is some sort of pissing contest. That is what the above caption is alluding to. All you pompous ass mofos out here who ought to be happy you even get your dick wet to begin with (and all you prudish ass girls who sit on the sidelines...cackling it up..like you don't do shit.) complaining at EVERY TURN about a women doing something that you 'think you are entitled to' to begin with. I almost want to tell women to turn the 'pussy facet' off on you lame niggas for a GOOD WHILE so maybe you will get it. For real. Just from the outside looking in, it is a 'hard road'. The kicker....



Some of you aren't even GETTING PUSSY out here complaining about what they should and shouldn't do. 

Now I'm all for shared responsibility and taking ownership of one's faults so by NO MEANS ARE WOMEN ON A WHOLE UNACCOUNTABLE FOR SHIT BUT SOME OF YOU DUDES OUT HERE who are acting the way the caption up top reads are WHY THEY COME OFF LIKE THEY DO. I don't blame them. Sorry.*







*Aww you are just some 'lonely blogger' who wrote this shit who is probably (insert your favorite thing that you think everyone should have that you just got that you don't realize that most of us have had, sold it, bought again and sold it back again, including ME, material thing here) doesn't have........- You. 

I started writing this when Sportscenter came on at 6:00..It is now 6:04..this is light work my niggas. Doesn't take much thought for me. I am not YOU. It doesn't strain my brain to type up some quick 'get right' for you niggas and then get back to what I'm doing. Catch up though....
 

(Words) Dear Folks in with these 'FantasyLand' ass ideals of a relationship..

I love ya'll. I promise I do. Before you go getting your panties in a bunch, no one is out saying you shouldn't have STANDARDS. Nope. No one is. So this post isn't a cry for folks to let others do WHATEVER. What this post IS ABOUT reality. That's it. The things that are about to be discussed might by in your REALITY (yet) but I gotta tell that the folks whose reality it IS IN, didn't have it in theirs either.


First though, I want to talk about this word some of you LOVE TO THROW AROUND..

SETTLE 

Oh you niggas throw this word around like it is the MAGICAL elixir to WHATEVER ails a relationship. As if by simply NOT DOING THAT, one will have a mate with NO SHORTCOMINGS whatsoever and all will be perfect in FantasyLand once again. (CHUCKLES) The funny thing about that is if ANY OF YOU ACTUALLY LIVED IT HOW YOU SPIT IT, you would be MUCH MUCH MUCH FARTHER IN YOUR LIVES ALL THE WAY AROUND. So it 'sounds good', when you say it but I kinda have a hard time believing you when I see you 'settling' yourself. Ya dig? Oh, I know you are settling too. Don't get if fucked up. I see what you 'claim you like' as opposed to what you have outchea. I not talking 'cream of the crop' goals either. I'm talking EVERY DAY ATTAINABLE GOALS that you have 'settled for less' in. Again, we all have 'standards' and a lot of you have stopped on the 'as long as he/she' can provide money OR good looks portion of the list and SAID FUCK THE 'GOOD COMMUNICATOR/BEST FRIEND/GOOD PERSON/SENSIBLE/ETC/ETC to the wayside. You choose ONE OR THE OTHER (good looking or money) and then you THINK YOU ARE GOOD. Then the REST OF THE SHIT SLOWLY BEGINS TO MATTER as the years (sometimes months) go on... This is the stage we are going to speak on today, for those of you who haven't gotten there yet. 'Cause neither of the two MAIN THINGS (good looks/money) are going to maintain (keep) a relationship good without some sort of outside stimulation. 






Do I have your attention now? Good. 


As I watch/listen/read some of ya'lls reactions to folks 'infidelities', relationship dramas, relationship issues, etc, etc, I can't help but chuckle at the SHEER naivete` some of you have when it comes to matters of the heart. I guess we all do it on some level but some of you boy.. Let me tell you. You act as if everything is 'disposable' and with one 'flip a button' you can just move on to the next thing. No Country for consideration of time, feelings, THE PERSON'S OWN FUCKUPS and the like. Nope. Ya'll get ya'lls paint brushes out QUICK when you hear about some shit on some 'Just do this...just do that..eliminate this..don't settle for that.." thinking the shit will just magically WORK OUT. Then...then.... and here is the shit that kills me, if you DON'T THINK IT WILL WORK OUT, your remedy is to....


"Just leave...." 

Now you've heard me say this before..NOT EVERYONE IS OUT HERE ON THAT 'Joni Loves Cha Chi' man. (I have to think of a more up to date version of disposable teenage love...I can't at the moment though..sue me.) Some folks, whether they are there for A GOOD REASON OR NOT, are in some HEAVY SHIT. Got years in their shit. Got their 'best years' (according their peers and their own personal mentality..another post..another time..)* in it. Kids*.. Needs.. wants..etc...etc.. that are getting meant and won't be by anyone else. Present problem that you 'know about' withstanding. This is why I don't EVER just get dismissive about folks problems with these types of answers. It is NEVER just that simple. Don't you idiots think that the person involved in the shit HAS THOUGHT THAT? Clearly they CAN'T DO THAT. That is up to them get to the point that they can so offering that up as a solution is pretty pointless at most points***. 

(Starts a slow golf clap for all of you have NEVER HAD TO DEAL WITH THIS IN ANY CAPACITY...) Congratulations, you are doing well. Don't ride to fast on your high horse though my nig and niggettes, 'cause almost to a man or women, all of those people you see in 'pain' or who are going through some shit were sitting pretty JUST LIKE YOU WERE. Their dismissive 'waves' to any 'issues' that may come up in a relationship have led to ADDITIONAL PAIN because they got BLINDSIDED. They thought that if they did XYZ then ABC would happen. I mean it makes sense right? Treat a person a certain way, you get good results and we all live HAPPILY EVER AFTER right? It is just that simple huh? Wrong.

Ya'll are out here forgetting we aren't ROBOTS THOUGH. Men nor women. Folks have bad days. Folks GO THROUGH SHIT. Folks aren't PERFECT when we get with 'em to begin with so where we are thinking they are going to 'evolve' they JUST MIGHT NOT EVER DO SO. Sometimes this happens at the SAME TIME for both folks involved in the relationship and the results are BAD.**** Shit HAPPENS. This is what the proverbial 'they' meant by that. You guys can all sit on the outside and 'peck away' with perfection if you like but unless you have been in the shit, you won't know. It is just lip service.. 

...which brings me to my next point. You just don't KNOW HOW FOLKS RUN THEIR SHIT. @ THEIR RELATIONSHIP. I see some of you commenting on how 'such and such' conducts themselves on the Internet' or at the party. It usually comes in my favorite form... 


"If that were me I wouldn't be putting up with...XYZ..I'm better than that.." 


Meanwhile, there is some nigga at home, putting up with you are and your Queen Diva attitude OR YOU ARE AT HOME PUTTING UP WITH A NIGGA DOING (Insert whatever you like here that you don't want us to know you put up with..Here's a hint...it is usually that one thing YOU ARE ALWAYS SPEAKING THE LOUDEST ABOUT...Try that...) Yeah man I hear ya'll outchea. Talking about what such and is 'getting away' with 'cause the other person doesn't know.. Here's a shocker...
 



 Maybe...just maybe... that's how they run their shit. Maybe...JUST MAYBE NOW, they have mutually agreed that whatever that other person is out there seeking 'in the World' cannot be provided at home and it is OKAY for the person you are CRUCIFYING to do WHATEVER IT IS THAT THEY DO outchea. Ever think of that Joni? Cha Chi? You didn't ...did you and I know why. You are pompous enough to think that you KNOW EVERYTHING and that everyone has to think like you. lol 

This just in... NO THE FUCK THEY DON'T HAVE TO THINK LIKE YOU... 


You see, some people KNOW THEIR SHORTCOMINGS AND KNOW WHAT THEY CAN AND CANNOT PUT UP WITH. What you call 'settling' (again while you are over there 'settling' yourself in some capacity..) is actually taking in account the human factor of this shit. Yeah...yeah...yeah.."That's why I'm never getting married/getting together seriously with anyone..." I know niggas...I know.... Good for you. Don't complain about what cats are out doing though within it though. Benefits and shit. You don't like the cons of it and that is YOUR BUSINESS. Shit isn't sweet. Never HAS BEEN. @ those of you touting 'relationships' have changed. They haven't. You just got older and got exposed to more shit is all. Like I have said on here time and time again, THERE IS A REASON AUNTIE BETTY WON'T LET UNCLE LEROY OUTTA HER SIGHT/Uncle LeRoy gets to STILL GO TO THE STRIP CLUB/AUNT JOY GETS TO GO ON OUT OF TOWN GIRL TRIPS/WHATEVER LITTLE FUNKY SITUATION that your little young mind is too small to grasp. These things exist for a reason and it is usually for the sanctity of the relationship. Occasionally, it is because mofos ain't shit but the REALITY OF IT IS, it because mofos don't provide that part of the relationship and agreements have been hashed out. 


So think about that, the next time you have a mofo in your DMs, after you found out they had somebody and you want to know 'why they are doing what they are doing" *****


Is this enough REAL TALK FOR YOU CATS OUT HERE? No sugarcoating. No FantasyLand. Just real gritty shit. I see all these wet behind the ears ass cats, quoting their little quotes about if you 'Treat someone like such and such then they will NEVER DO SUCH AND SUCH.." Fuck outta here with that shit. Sometimes, shit is rough and a motherfucker has to work on THEMSELVES. No amount of steak and blowjobs is going to fix that.. No amount of red bottoms and cards is gonna get that right. There is a reason why cats 'put up with certain shit' 'cause they KNOW THEY HAVE PUT THE FOLKS THEY ARE WITH THROUGH SOME REAL BULLSHIT that they didn't have anything to do with. So stop judging from afar outchea ya'll. For real. 


You look bad doing it with the 'little bit of facts' that you know. I don't care if it is you know 'she knocked off one of his boys' or he 'beat her ass' honestly. Sometimes, motherfuckers do shit and shit comes back around. Notice the person it happens to doesn't SAY SHIT now do they? There's a reason and it isn't FOR EVERYONE TO KNOW. We can't never be satisfied with that outchea though. We are always looking for someone who is worse off than ourselves so we can look, point and laugh at 'em. How about you fix YOUR OWN SHIT. How about that?? (Drops the mic) 










*I'll touch on it a bit now. Some of you think 19-25 are 'prime' years. Yeah..if you are a superstar with superstar money. Chances are, during that age, unless your peoples are rich or you are doing illegal shit, you don't have a pot to piss in nor window to throw it out of. So yeah, you got your little muscle game up or there isn't that much mileage on the pussy (so to speak) but you DON'T HAVE YOUR SHIT TOGETHER AND THE VAST MAJORITY OF YOU DON'T KNOW SHIT. I don't care 'how rough you came up' or any of that. I know. I see the mistakes you are making out here. If you knew better, you'd do better. Proof is in the pudding folks. (Yes, some older people DEFINITELY STILL FUCK UP..THEY HAVEN'T LEARNED..)






**You are out here talking about 'improper Daddying and shit yet you want niggas who are Fathers to just 'leave'. Parenting from afar or jointly is cool and can be done. It is BEST DONE WITH EVERYONE IN THE HOME. It just is. If it worked out for you and yours....GREAT. Everyone isn't fit for it. See the SAME FOLKS YOU ARE OUT HERE DISSING FOR NOT BEING PARENTED PROPERLY FOR REFERENCE. Their parents were 'around' for the most part. Shit could have been better. Period. 


*** Until they are TRULY READY TO LEAVE. Then you can help them by reiterating that. Helping them with that. Constructively. Not by going out and getting new dick or pussy to wave in their face either. I'm talking REAL HELP. You know, helping them with THEIR ISSUES THAT MIGHT HAVE CONTRIBUTED TO THE ISSUES THAT THEY ARE HAVING??


**** And then some person of the opposite sex might benefit. It is NOTHING THEY DID. Which is why I don't give males (or females) 'credit' for knocking off someone in their time of need. You lucked up. Congratulations. Low hanging fruit. You didn't do shit but 'be there' fam. lol Keep telling yourself you are a 'mack' or a 'bad bitch' though. You got used. It is what it is.


***** As you stand up there on your moral high horse, ready to mount his or have her mount yours....

(Words) Dr. Martin Luther King Day: Be this hype tomorrow about 'service' and the days after as you are today..

That's all I'm saying... 


When I typed this on Twitter earlier, I didn't think it would be a blog post honestly. I mean, I was contemplating on whether or not I was going to EVEN SPEAK ON THE DAY AT HAND like I have done in the past and had decided against it. Then came that tweet. 


When I say 'Hype', I want to be clear. There are folks in my TLs (and Facebook feeds) who are slandering those who aren't out here DOING WHAT THEY ARE DOING ON THIS DAY. That is wrong. For several reasons IMO. 

Slandering someone for being DISRESPECTFUL OF Dr. King? Cool. I get that. BY ALL MEANS, GET 'EM! 

Getting on folks whose DAY TO DAY you don't know though just because they don't 'put it out there'? Not cool.  You are alienating PLENTY OF GOOD FOLKS by DOING THAT. Hence the picture up top..I don't think that is fair honestly... You know how folks are. Someone young and impressionable at this very moment just became disenchanted because of those thoughts.*** It is this 'It has to be this day and the rest of the days we don't see you doing it don't count' kinda thinking that has folks reluctant to participate to begin with. If ya'll want folks to stop doing things for show, stop ACTING LIKE 'FOR SHOW' IS THE ONLY WAY THINGS CAN GET DONE...


With that tweet, came a (inner) need for me to elaborate on it more. Let me first say, by even ACKNOWLEDGING THAT IT IS A DAY OF SERVICE for some, I think I have MORE THAN SHOWN HOW MUCH RESPECT I HAVE FOR THE DAY AND FOR THE MAN HIMSELF. Anyone taking it ANY OTHER WAY THAN THAT, has their OWN ISSUES TO DEAL WITH. If you know me, I mean what I say and say what I mean. PERIOD. 

With that statement, I was speaking more to the folks who are out here trying to make people feel bad for 'not attending Church today' or not marching with them when they do NONE OF THE THINGS THAT MLK SET FORTH FOR US TO DO THE OTHER 364. Not trying to disregard the day or him. Even if you DO ENGAGE IN ACTIVITIES that are helpful to others, you aren't about to guilt ME (or anyone else) into thinking that because they aren't doing EXACTLY what you are doing with the holiday that they are bad folks. Nope. Sorry. 


Another point I wanted to relay with that statement is that, while doing something TODAY is great, what about tomorrow? Next week? What about BEFORE TODAY? Did my 'service' last week become null and void because it didn't occur TODAY? That's how ya'll sound out here. Like if it didn't happen TODAY, it doesn't matter all of the sudden. What about a month from now when, after the impact of Black History Month and all the 'parties' you folks are gonna throw because of it have died down a bit, when you FORGET ALL ABOUT 'DAYS OF SERVICE'? While the rest of us are out here doing service on a PRETTY REGULAR BASIS? What about then? I pose these questions to SOME OF YOU. 

Why do you ONLY DO YOUR SERVICE WHEN PROMPTED by a 'regulated' day? That is MY OTHER QUESTION.... What if, gasps, that person's job IS A SERVICE JOB and they help folks all the time? Are they NOT supposed to enjoy this time off to maybe rest and recuperate so that they can SERVICE OTHERS appropriately say..tomorrow?* How much 'service' is required for me to become eligible to talk down to others about ONE DAY? Enlighten me oh Great One. I'd like to hear it.




Look, no one is out here expecting ya'll to be Mother Theresa or Ghandi or MARTIN HIMSELF so why don't you lose the attitude and stop TRYING TO GUILT FOLKS like you are.... Mother Theresa, Ghandi or Martin? Deal? Good...




Enjoy your holiday how you see fit and continue on that path of 'All men (and women) are created equal'...


Look, I don't wanna be a killjoy today. I promise I don't. I want folks to know that he didn't die in vain. That some of what he says, while still not PERFECT, is slowly being put into action. I also can't clap to over zealous claims of 'do good' from folks I know next week would run over someone less fortunate to get Starbucks for their morning Latte either. Sorry. Can't do it.  'Cause lets face it, as earlier as tomorrow, this will be some of you... @ the real World problems that you could probably help with under NO DURESS..

So you will have to excuse me if I 'turn a deaf ear' to all that jabbering you are doing about what 'folks should be doing with their time' on this day....


*Hats off to you who ARE IN A JOB OF SERVICE WHO STILL GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING. Dedication. For real. Salute.

*** The domino effect to this is that they could think that any work unseen is 'unworthy' and apply that to other facets of Life. Not what you want in your 'future leaders'..Trust me..Think about how many UNAPPRECIATIVE folks you know of now who think because they didn't get to 'witness' the work it must have been 'easy'? It came from somewhere...

(Words) How not to be the BOYFRIEND/MAN/WHATEVER of the girl who posts (naked) pictures on the Internet..

Look at his second tweet and then READ HIS BIO then you will know why I 'm writing this...This is a memo to all you 'boyfriends, SOs or whatever of some of the women who love to post naked pics on the Net...


So you have girl. Or a client. Or whatever 'pimping' you think you are out here doing and she claims your ass funky ass. The thing is, she TAKES PICTURES AND CAMS OR WHATEVER SHE DOES AND THAT IS HOW YA'LL MIGHT MAKE YA'LL MONEY ONE DAY. Or at least she probably has some aspirations of making money in that way by the way she tweets to Playboy, enters contests and the like...

COOL. I am in no position to be out here knocking her OR YOU. That's great. That's YOUR BUSINESS.. Now I know some who would. Lets face it..a lot of people would. They get all in your shit for even CLAIMING HER. Try to shame her and all of that and basically clown you for ANY ATTEMPT OF FLAPPING YOUR CAPE FOR HER. Mind you, they would be the same folks gawking over her but you would still get clowned. I'm not here for that..


Now I don't know if homie thought he was 'funny' with the little 'joke' he made about the 'followers' of the account/amount of tweets but lets just pretend that he was shall we?




Lets see.. if your girl has only made 342 tweets TOTAL BUTT NAKED DAMM NEAR, but has 5k plus followers, how do you think that happened? I mean, she clearly (or maybe it is you being her 'cause I know how some of you lame niggas do...She might not even know she is on the Net..) knows how to use the proper hashtags (FreakFriday,TittyTues, etc,etc) BUT her followers also come from...wait for it...blog posts like the one I made on her.. I mean you have 141 followers so WE KNOW IT ISN'T YOUR ACCOUNT THAT GOT HER THOSE FOLLOWERS now don't we? Again, I will stay away from the OBVIOUS DISSES as I actually think THOSE ARE PRETTY LAME but I will say that we KNOW WHY FOLKS ARE FOLLOWING HER AND YOU DON'T HAVE SHIT TO DO WITH IT. 


Maybe you don't know how the Internet works. The blog posts go DIRECTLY TO TWITTER. I've made well over 7k posts. I've RT'd them at various times of day as some folks who follow it (or my main account) have WELL OVER 2K FOLKS THEY FOLLOW THEMSELVES. They may miss it the first time. Hence, it gets RT'd. Then they RT to the 10k or so followers that they have and then some of THEM COME AND VISIT THE SITE. Then there is is this little thing called a SEARCH ENGINE that folks type in the names of subjects, sluts*, or whatever they are looking for and they end up....yep...you guessed it...HERE. Go Google your bitch's name right now. I'm on the first page. 4th one down homie.. @ me. So now, when ever her name is mentioned, my blog is too. The tweet? That shows up on the engine search TOO. 

See how that works? You taking notes. Matter of fact, I'm mad at you. Not because of the diss but because your funky ass didnt' RT THE LINK. Make another corny joke and RT the link next time. Please. I take all donations. (Click the ads too while you are here). Maybe one of your 141 folks might like what they see here and come through too. I won't diss them for being associated with you. 





So basically, to answer your VERY STUPID QUESTION, 'Who I'm talking to..." is the ENTIRE INTERNET. Well over 10k a day on just SECOND PAGE CLICKS alone. Your girl RIGHT NOW has over 6k FIRST TIME views. Right now. She only has 5888 followers and those hits are from my 'regulars' who DON'T HAVE A TWITTER but follow the blog via RSS feed, Facebook, word of mouth, etc, etc.. I can see where they are coming from and they are labeled. @ how I know. 




The real question is, Who the fuck are YOU TALKING TO? That's the real question.... I have BIG AUDIENCE compared to you. So let me ask you that same question... **




And now I'm talking to them about you. Hope I make you famous or get you some followers. I'll lend you some of the blog's 492..Or perhaps my main accounts 1k plus. I follow some assholes. They may ACTUALLY LOVE YOU. For real. So you should get some followers after this. Make sure you bow down though and thank me after you get 'em.. 


Sucker ass nigga.... 




So fellas, DON'T BE THIS DUDE. If your girl is worth looking at, wants to be looked at, etc, etc, don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Be happy someone likes looking at your girl, lay back and take the praise and don't be an insecure prick. She is YOUR GIRL. It should go without saying you don't 'want anyone touching her' or that you have her back. That is young boy shit @ the idle threats. Only show up with the cape when it is cape worthy. Not over petty shit. Let her make her money. Don't ruin her brand. You CHOSE HER AND YOU KNOW WHAT SHE IS ABOUT so don't let your insecurities fuck up her money. I mean, sites like mine are gonna be around and they are the backbone of your girl (whether she sings, takes her clothes off or whatever) success. Can't handle that? You need not be her man then. You look crazy out here making preemptive tweets. No matter HOW MANY FOLLOWERS YOU HAVE. I wouldn't care if you had 10k followers. You will ruin the fantasy for THOUSANDS of dudes trying to get her by popping your head up in their mentions with THE BULLSHIT. That. Messes. Up. The. Money. All the eye candy, good looking singers and folks who are known, ALL HAVE SOME SORT OF SIGNIFICANT OTHER and the ones who 'play their position' are the ones that have a good relationship. Play your position or quit the job. 




* Your word not mine..since you love 'em so much...Take it how you wanna @ you thinking I'm calling your girl one..Not my issue dog. Sweetie, since I sent this to you, you might wanna holler your boy if he loves sluts 'cause..well...he basically is calling you ONE. But hey, maybe that's how ya'll get down. I'll mind my business...As ya'll were.. 




**Shit pays too man. Thank you. @ audience. 'Preciate ya'll...