(Words) The Pomp & Circumstance of 'Insert Name Here' Day.. Lowering 'the expecations' and then turning around & getting mad about it...

I guess I SHOULD start this off by saying Happy Mother's Day. So I will. Happy Mother's Day to all. If you are a Mother, playing the role of Mom, yadda yadda yadda yadda..I'm talking to you. Does this apply to Father's Day too? See the end of the post..

Back to the title of the post though...


" I don't care...It's just one day..." - The correct answer everyone KNOWS they should give AND MEAN for these days. Anyone with any sense anyway. 


"I can't believe.." I just expected more....." "I gave hints after I said I didn't care though..." - What almost ALWAYS ENDS UP HAPPENING when things go awry on these days.. Or just some underlying shade for few DAYS...

I'm probably not alone in this one as being SOMETHING THAT GETS ON MY NERVES. Like NO OTHER. It doesn't matter from WHO EITHER. Child, Woman, Man. Mother. SO. My own kids. Friends. I don't discriminate or tolerate this shit. Especially in regards to 'certain days', 'certain events' and the like. 

Even more cumbersome is the 'built in the excuse' that I or anybody else should 'already know that the person who is saying 'I don't care about....(insert whatever it is)" REALLY DOESN'T MEAN IT AND I SHOULD GO ABOVE AND BEYOND ANYWAY SO THAT THEY CAN FEEL 'SPECIAL'. 

Listen man, we are ADULTS. Adults I say! Times like these are NOT THE OPPORTUNITY to revert back to being a fucking baby who needs to be 'coddled and cajoled' into being 'wanted'. No sir/ma'am. Nobody has time for that. Out here guessing and shit. Then...then.. when folks go through ALL THE TROUBLE TO DO WHAT YOU SAID YOU DIDN'T 'want them to do' and you don't respond with enthusiasm, who is at fault? Yep...you guessed it.... 


We are...'cause you said "Don't bother..I told you don't go through all of that trouble...You shouldn't have done shit....Told you I didn't care..."

Let SOMETHING 'special' not be done though...-_-? Then we are still at fault... I've seen COUNTLESS NUMBERS OF FOLKS be in the proverbial 'doghouse' because of that. Not like they weren't HEADED THERE ANYWAY 'cause of the aforementioned paragraphs. It is a PRETTY HOPELESS SITUATION. (Insert your cliches here for it..) 


 SO I would like to start with this first. If you want something special done, SAY THAT SHIT. Don't be wishy washy about it. Not that I don't find the fact that you even want it that way ONLY ON THESE PARTICULAR DAYS a little disturbing. I do... just don't play the 'throw the stone/hide the hands' game with it. Just like someone who isn't a ' OVER THE TOP gift giver' shouldn't play that game either. Let it be known where you stand on that issue. I would also like to point out, as I will a few more times in this post, that some of you HAVE IT REALLY GOOD DURING THE COURSE OF THE YEAR SO ALL THESE 'DEMANDS' YOU ARE OUT HERE MAKING ARE PRETTY SILLY.  

Some of you DO HAVE SONS/daughters WHO COME TO SEE ABOUT YOU OR CALL YOU EVERY DAY. Make arrangements for you to be taken care of in lieu of their absence. Stay extended times In addition to him taking care of his own HOME in the manner that you raised him to do so in.

Some of you do have boyfriends, co-parents, husbands, ex-husbands that DO MAKE SURE THAT THE KIDS (and you) are taken care of FAR AND AWAY beyond the call of what are wrongfully considered 'womanly duties. Keeping hot meals (cooked from scratch) on tables, doing what was once considered the woman's role of 'showing up at the school for school functions that DO NOT INVOLVE DISCIPLINE OF THE CHILD and the like IN ADDITION TO THE OTHER 'MANLY RESPONSIBILITIES' THAT HE TAKES ON that you REAP THE BENEFITS FROM. Nothing like saying "I'm gonna be home late..." just to let him know you are SAFE AND THAT'S IT knowing that he can and will handle everything else at home 'cause that is WHAT HE ALREADY DOES... 

So lets' not get out here and get bitter because Sally down the street got the 'makeup for all the shit I don't do during the year' treatment aight? Sally's son/husband/man PROBABLY HAS A LITTLE MORE TIME ON HIS HANDS..ya underdig?



It is pretty much one of the more selfish stances in the World if you REALLY DON'T MEAN IT WHEN YOU SAY 'I don't care'/you get upset when you see others 'getting stuff' when you know you get it YEAR ROUND. ...Especially if you are going to then turn around and succumb to all the 'pressures and the like' from any pomp and circumstance that is being paraded around you by others. You know the:

 'Didn't anyone do XYZ for you?"
 
'You mean he/she/they didn't take you out/get you to a overpriced dinner/crowded commercialized place/overpriced gift because the stores KNOW THAT YOU ARE 'OBLIGATED TO BUY ON THIS DAY' GIFT? 


Or my that opening salvo of ALL SALVOS....


"JUST WHAT DID HE/SHE/THEY for you today 'cause you know (insert the names) took me XYZ and treated me like a (insert the title here) 


All of that shit is CUTE AS CAN BE. If you can do it, GO DO IT. Every last bit of it. Let me tell you one fucking thing RIGHT NOW THOUGH. 




If you are out here trying to take ONE DAY AND MAKE UP FOR THE OTHER 364 (365 ON THIS LEAP YEAR!) DAYS THAT YOU AREN'T DOING SHIT/SLANDERING FOLKS WHO YOU FEEL AREN'T DOING ENOUGH/FEELING BAD BECAUSE YOU AREN'T GETTING WHAT OTHERS ARE GETTING EVEN THOUGH THE REST OF THE YEAR YOU HAVE WHAT IT IS THEY WANT OUT OF LIFE.....


You are pretty fucking sad.You can't make up for it all in one day. You can't have it made up TO YOU all in one day. You SURELY can't be outchea type upset over material things when you are getting the intangibles that others are YEARNING FOR AND COMPENSATING FOR with the gifts they get throughout the year. Nope. Sorry.



Why would I say it like that? 'Cause that is the only way some of you will hear me. That's why. If I said it nicely, you would come out here with the 'But if...' and all of that shit. I don't want to hear it though...

Who gives a shit if 'such and such went by to see his MOTHER TODAY and took her to XYZ' WHEN I'M (others too) OUT HERE MAKING SURE HIS MOTHER DOESN'T HAVE TO PULL HER TRASH CANS DOWN TO THE CURB every day 'cause his 'right up the street ass doesn't come through to see her?

Who cares if 'such and such' took his girl/baby mother/wife' to WHEREVER HE TOOK HER, TOOK THE KIDS FOR 'ONE DAY', BOUGHT HER A PAIR OF 'WHATEVER HE BOUGHT' OR DID whatever he did WHEN THE OTHER 364 DAYS OF THE YEAR, he doesn't 'help her', doesn't cook, doesn't 'babysit his own kids'*, or pretty much doesn't do make any other sacrifices outchea. 


Who cares if on Christmas, there's a new car sitting out front for 'such and such' EVERY YEAR when you by June, cats are getting put out of their HOUSE AGAIN 'cause bills aren't paid? 




.....Not me... And neither should you. It is being done for show for the most part and in many cases, it is a 'THE MAKEUP CALL'. Which is why you see so many folks in flux the days after. It almost always turns into 'I knew that 'treatment' wouldn't last....' Sure it is nice to do for folks and go above and beyond at times. However, if your normal level of doing is a two an eight level effort will only magnify the two level effort QUICK FAST AND IN A HURRY. Ya'll don't hear me out here though.. Think about it though.


Look, I'm NOT saying 'don't do anything for anybody' on these 'special days'. Nope. What I am saying is, while the days are special, your EVERY DAY LIFE ACTIONS should be indicative of that. That's what I am saying. What I am saying is if you are one of these 'conflicted folks' who KNOWS WHILE YOU MAY NOT GET THE THINGS FROM whomever is in your Life material wise on these commercial days but who gets ALL THE LOVE, SUPPORT, AND THE LIKE FROM THEM THE REST OF THE YEAR don't be sour. Trust me...Those folks who got something today can't 'use what they got' today to replace the voids that are missing MOST TIMES** These are the same folks who are sitting back the REST OF THE YEAR, wishing that their son/daughter DID CALL THEM EVERYDAY, did STAY OUTTA TROUBLE AND NOT CAUSE THEM STRESS, FINANCIAL HARDSHIPS AND EMOTIONAL DISTRESS WITH THEIR BULLSHIT, did come see their kids, did TAKE CARE OF THEIR KIDS, did CHIP AND HELP/TAKE THE FUCK OVER with their kids and all of the other things that they applaud 'you for having in your Life'. Just remember that..


So Happy Mother's Day to everyone out there. Show your mother or the mothers in your lives some love. Try and remember that the OTHER DAYS OF THE YEAR THOUGH and any Mothers out there who didn't get 'the treatment' but gets 'THE TREATMENT' all the rest of the days of the year? Rest easy. Tomorrow, those that care will still be on the job and those that 'faked it' today 'cause the spotlight was on, will be gone. Let folks have today though. 


Which would you rather have? The 'perfect Mother's Day' or the 'there for you all year round' person? I know what I would pick... It's one day. It is just like Valentine's Day to me honestly. You need ONE DAY to remember you LOVE YOUR MOMMA? Or those that are Mother's around you? Word? Oh okay.... 






Oh..I almost forgot what I said at the beginning of the post. @ Father's Day. You know what? It DOES APPLY.  Not because it is 'fair' but because it is TRUE. I mean, if you don't appreciate the VERY FEW MEN OUT HERE ACTING LIKE FATHERS the other 364....There's a problem. Sorry. Ditto if you have told everyone around you that 'All you need is a beer and some quiet time'..you can't get mad if all you get is...well....SOME BEER AND SOME QUIET TIME. If you want MORE, you need to say it but you PROBABLY WANT TO TAKE IN CONSIDERATION ALL THAT IS DONE FOR YOU DURING THE COURSE OF THE YEAR by those that care. That's all I'm gonna say about that.. I won't be as thinly veiled about that day 'cause it INVOLVES ME. If I want something specific, I'm probably gonna MAKE IT HAPPEN and not wait to see 'if it does happen'. That's just me though...

*You can't babysit your OWN KIDS. They are yours. Oxymoron if there EVER WAS ONE..  


**This is the part where I have to compensate for some of you as your inner hit dog starts to com...I mean lack of reading comprehension begins to come out. I said SOME. Which would be to say that there are people can GIVE and STILL DO THEIR JOB THE REST OF THE YEAR. If you THINK I AM TALKING ABOUT YOU WELL THEN...THAT'S your issue. Not mine..Keep barking though....dawg.. 

(Yawns) I guess it is time to make the quarterly..."I see you out there"... Post...

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(Picture) Taking Carolina Own: The Warehouse to another level..MAYBE... Possibly co-hosting a show on the radio..

Possibly....possibly...POSSIBLY* ('Cause as MANY OF YOU KNOW, things do 'Fall Apart' at times), there is a GREAT POSSIBILITY THAT YOU CAN HEAR THE MAN BEHIND ALL OF THESE VIEWS AND THOUGHTS ON THE BLOG, on a radio, computer, etc near YOU uncensored. Live. On air.


I've gotten this offer before and quite frankly I have not been pressed to do it. As in either MY OWN SHOW or as a co-host. I don't even like my own voice like that truthfully but I can get over that shit as I know what I SAY will overcome all of that. (I talk just like I type...) I've been told I 'should' do pursue it before but I just felt like maybe I needed to find my own way (and hell some sort of audience to boot) before I just popped up on some one's airwaves talking about 'listen to me when I go on live at such and such a time'. Ideally, I would have waited even LONGER to keep building things up to get them to MY standards BUT my boy asked me to do it. I think the 'contrast' between us will make it work. We both know hip hop/music but we don't ALWAYS AGREE. Which is going to make for GREAT debates and the like. He is a 'purist' in the PURIST while I am the purist who will hasn't forgotten that we had party joints and super frivolous music that we ALL LOVED too. @ knocking music that lacks 'substance'. Should be a good time.





Sooooooooooooooooooooooooo when does it air? Where can I hear it? Details dammit..DETAILS.. - You

I understand. Some details are being worked out. It will air on a week day though. That I can tell you and it won't be on Monday nights! (Pretty foolish to go up against MNF...Hell...I DON'T WANT TO MISS MNF...) Time is being worked out but it won't be too late. More details coming... I mean...I have a medium to do it so... I will keep ya'll posted.

As far as an actual air date....

Minor details need to be worked out and we are putting together the necessary things that make a SHOW. If you WORK (OR HAVE WORKED) on a show before, you KNOW you just don't walk in, pop up and start talking. (Although the goal is to make it look like that is EXACTLY WHAT THE FUCK YOU JUST DID..) It takes a little prep work. Gotta make sure the creative side of things are taken care of too. I don't 'give my work' away to anyone but myself. Ya dig? Charity Starts At Home for real around here.. (What up Phonte!) so yeah....I have a platform ALREADY. This is just an addition for me to be honest with you.


If you have been following me HERE, then you also know that I kind of have a thing about 'getting things right'. So I'm gonna take my time (but try to get things set up as quickly as possible) so they can be how I want them on MY END. I can only control my end after all. If every thing else lines up the way it is supposed, the 'possibly' will turn into a 'DEFINITELY' and then the 'definitely' will turn into an exact date. Before the Summer FOR CERTAIN @ the target date. All I'm doing today is letting you know that it 'might happen'. It is possible. Again...lets hope for the best and that it can be worked out on all sides.

It should be very interesting. It won't effect the blog or the postings in a negative way.




*That means I want to do it (and have liked what I have seen/heard thus far) but I won't do it unless it is ABSOLUTELY the way I want to do it. From the time slot, to the role I play, to the flexibility I have on the show, ALL THE WAY down to how I think I sound on the show. I'm not about to get on the radio and sound 'dumb'. Sorry. Nope. FOH. I am a 'behind the scenes' kinda person with a 'in front of the camera' personality' so I am pretty sure I can do it but the 'limelight' isn't something I am chasing. So I can and will pass on this opportunity too if it isn't to my liking. Hence...the possibly....

(Chat Series) @Carolinaware's Own The Chat Series with @TANlAAA

Back with another installment. Been awhile..











We are back here at Carolinaware's Own The Warehouse with the Chat Series. This time we are going to take a DIFFERENT APPROACH TO THE SERIES. Oh it is still going to be an interview trust me. This one is going to get a little 'dirty' though...as well as dispel some shit, probably 'ignite' some shit and just...well..BE THE SHIT...

She one of my favorite follows on Twitter as she is a straight shooter like me. We GO WAY WAY BACK in this Internet shit which we will get into PRETTY QUICKLY in the Interview.

She is a former 2 X Chromosome of the Week here. She is HEAVY out here on Twitter if you use it like that. Some of you have seen her tweets glide across your TL once or twice. Hell, some of you either love her, hate her or don't know enough truth to do either. We are going to fix SOME OF THAT today hopefully. So keep scrolling down, 'cause I know you are interested as if you weren't you would not have clicked the link, and dig in to this latest installment of 'The Chat Series' with Carolinaware... 





Carolinaware = Bold text
Tania = Lets see just how smart some of you really are or if you are as smart as you mouth off to be on Twitter.

CW- Evening ma'am. We are gonna get RIGHT TO IT.. Tell the good folks how old you are, your ACTUAL NATIONALITY/RACE/WHATEVER FOLKS WANT TO CALL IT (Yes, Mr./Mrs Know It All, we ALL KNOW THERE IS A CORRECT TERM. Calm that shit down right now though..@ some of you), WEIGHT and location.. *
Age: 22

Nationality: Puerto Rican

Height: 5'4ish

Weight:
HA! This is where the mystery comes to an end... I'm 175














Hometown/location: Milwaukee, WI

(Blogger's note) Shit just got real no? @ the information. I know....keep reading though...Stand up woman I tell you. Salute to HER FOR ANSWERING THAT QUESTION.




CW- First of all, we have a lil history so we are gonna just CUT TO THE CHASE OF THAT REALLY QUICK.

Were you on Crushspot? (Of course I know the answer but yeah..) Let the folks know.. Reason I ask is because I think that is IMPORTANT TO NOTE that you have 'experience' at this 'Internet shit'.

T- YES! My first name on there was _sl0re and then I changed it to simple ass 'tania.'

CW- The good ole days. What up Vern? (Founder of Crushspot who lived out in Vegas. Shoutout to the homie who branched off with Paxed too. I see you out here in these Twitter streets cuh.). Lot of alums ALL OVER TWITTER/TUMBLR from that spot. These 'new niggas out here acting like they 'invented the Internet' or ANY OF THIS SHIT they are doing is new though. 2001 says Hello. So this isn't your 'first' Internet' experience like it is for some of these new niggas out here?

T- Naaah. I've been around since the AOL days, actually. I got a couple years under my belt. Lol


CW- Same here. Hence the words I just gave in the last response.. Straight no chaser question next... Do you have a man? I mean again, you answer this all the time but cats are dense out this bitch so LETS JUST PUT THAT SHIT OUT THERE as of today...


No sir, I do not. I am currently speaking to someone, though. ;)


CW- I guess this is the part where I am supposed to ask if he is on Twitter huh? Nope. Not gonna do it. You will let folks know THAT ONE when you (or him) are ready. Lotta smoke talk on your daily feed too. Tell me something....Are you REALLY OUT HERE SMOKING SOMETHING every SINGLE DAY like you tweet? Cats wanna know..




T- Fuck yeah I am. I smoke every day of the week. No reason for me to lie. It's how I stay sane on twitter! Lol



CW- Aight..we have asked some PRETTY BASIC QUESTIONS albeit one that NOBODY PROBABLY THOUGHT YOU WOULD HAVE THE GUTS TO ANSWER but now lets get deep with it one time...

ARE YOU A PART OF BLACK TWITTER? Please clear this up for me. If NOT, then how is it that you ALWAYS seem to find yourself on the 'receiving end' of numerous tweets from the folks who 'are'? If you are, what is your ranking within its hierarchy? Why isn't there a Latin Twitter btw in your opinion?

T- I don't really think I'm a part of Black twitter per se (Blogger's Note: Better get your dictionary/Thesaurus out before you question the spelling..Don't get embarrassed @ questioning it...) , but a lot of the people that fuck with me would put me in that group. I wouldn't though for the simple fact that I'm not lonely, bitter, malicious, or bored with my life to even wanna be a part of that group. I'm at my own 'table'... I just feel like since I'm confident and speak my mind, a lot of people find that reason enough to not like me. But fuck it, slander is love.



CW- (Looks at the camera..Ya'll niggas entertained yet? @ that last answer) 

Without naming names, approximately how many of your followers have a 'I hate that bitch' in public/"I want you BITCH' relationship with you in your DMs? You know, sending them shots on Twitter but trying to 'take shots' at the pussy?

T- Lord, there's A LOT. It's mostly the niggas that I use to fuck with but ended up not talking anymore that are the most bitter. It's a pattern with these niggas.

CW- I can't wait to hear the 'yelping' in your TL about that ANSWER. @ the hit dogs. Welp. Next question.. This is one I see crawl through your mentions every once in awhile so I thought I would give you the platform to address it.


ARE YOU AND 'Darling Niki' (that's one 'k' you ignorant fucks...GET IT RIGHT!) sisters? Just settle this shit once and for all..RIGHT HERE..
Lovers?

T- LOL.  Nah we aren't related at all. As far as lovers, if she let me for one night I'd show her what I'm about! Just kidding just kidding. Love you Niki!!

CW- Are there any of your followers that you would LEGIT meet up with and smoke with? (Nothing more)
T- Man hell yeah!  I actually do that all the time. But to be honest, a good portion of the time people want something from me In return so it's hard to just chill and smoke. ;(


CW- Again, but nobody 'wants' you according to some of these niggas..:) That dispels that one. Who is your favorite RAPPER/ACTOR/CELEB that you follow on Twitter? Why?

T- Lol I don't really follow any of those to be honest besides Joe Budden. And I follow him for the thirst traps he be settin. Loooord yes!!!

CW- There you go with that honesty and shit again.. (Covers ears) I'm just fucking with you. I think we all have a 'superficial follow' or a 100...Fuck it. Aight then, how about this...Who is your favorite 'non celeb', that you follow?

@carolinaware, @gemsdrunk @NinoBeige just to name a few.. Y'all  have always been supportive and shit when shit hits the fan on Twitter. I appreciate that a lot because I don't have many people there for me when shit like that happens. I really do love y'all.

CW-  I guess I should say I didn't prompt you to say that shit but these skeptical ass niggas.....You know what? Fuck 'em though. Thank you for that. I appreciate that. For real. You know me. I don't conform. Not in my nature. At all. I don't give a fuck WHO it is. So anytime I see that in someone else, I gravitate towards it. You are always good money over here. EVEN WHEN WE DISAGREE.. (Shocking...people really do that and can still be cool. What a concept? You niggas should try it sometime.. Here's another one I noticed. You KEEP A BAD YOUNG LADY IN THAT TL OVER THERE. I mean they are a FLOCK OF 'EM. How is it that you seem to have ALL OF THOSE SEXY LADIES following you on Twitter?

T- I'M A CHICK MAGNET DUUUUUH. LOL But nah, pretty chicks always attract other pretty chicks. I'm just blessed to have them on my team.

CW- 'Cause I walk like a Pimp and talk like a Mack...@ that answer. I love it. Aight lets get into the next part: 


The body and what it might 'do':


Tell me WHAT your favorite part of YOUR body is? Tell me what the folks who AREN'T HIDING BEHIND THE MASK OF A COMPUTER who SEE YOU IN PERSON tell you they like the best about your features?

T- My thighs, no doubt about that. They're so soft and awesome like pillows. Lol  People love me from head to toe though for real. The most features people compliment are my eyes, my smile, and of course my BUTT! ;)

CW- Oh WE HERE AT Carolinaware's Own KNOW ALL ABOUT THAT LOVE.. I still remember the numbers your post did when folks found out there was an ass shot of you on here.. All types of different IP addresses showing up on the Stat Tracker that day boy let me tell ya.. Aight..now we have to talk about your movement. Don't coy on me now either... 


Tell me in DETAIL why you are such a staunch advocate of the 'Eat the butt' program? Matter of fact, for those of who may be 'ignorant' to the movement, take this time to go on ahead and BREAK IT DOWN FOR 'EM..






T- Man listen, that shit feels amazing. It's like heaven when a nigga makes out with the bootyhole. I've actually came off the act. And for those who think a nigga gotta stick his whole tongue in the ass, naw. He ain't got to. He can just lick around it, massage/Flick it with his tongue ;) that's how I like it, actually.

CW- (BALLOON KNOT!! - Phontigallo) Now that's how you fucking answer a question. From now on, THAT'S HOW YOU ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS ON TWITTER...Oh wait..you do...My bad... Aight next question... Again...so niggas KNOW IT IS REAL... On AVERAGE, how many SERIOUS offers do you get from your followers to 'join the Eat the butt' program by making a 'personal umm...'donation' to the program?

T- Lol COUNTLESS! I don't like to brag but my DMs and mentions really do stay packed with the requests. It's always nice to see that I have men willing to do anything to eat my butt lol

CW- (Birdman hand rubs) If you EVER have any issues with cats acting up...nevermind..we can sidebar about alladat later... Next question! Do you have any piercings besides in your ear?

T- Yes, my lip, and my hood. Nipples coming soon!

CW- Well now... That sounds...Focus Carolinaware..focus nigga..... Aight since we are already down and dirty with it outchea....Sloppy mouth only or sloppy with the hands and the mouth?
T- It wouldn't be right if I wasn't getting sloppy with my hands involved too!


CW- If you aren't getting sloppy you aren't doing it right.. @ my motto. I fucks with it. Even though I don't smoke, COUNTLESS NUMBERS of my blog followers (and your followers do too) DO SMOKE So this next question is for them... Smoked out session or weed free?


T- Smoked out session EVERY DAY.

CW- Bikini or one piece? 

T- Bikini most definitely.

CW- Best beach you have EVER BEEN TO?

T- Culebra Beach in Culebra, Puerto Rico. Beautiful place. The water is crystal clear.

CW- Give me three spots in your town that if I visit, I HAVE TO GO TO EAT AT.

T- Sobelmans Tallgrass, Mazos, and Kopps. All burger joins that have amazing burgers.

CW- This next one is important. I see you tweet it often but I have to ask you.....Are THE 'PICTURES' that you receive REALLY SAFE WITH YOU? @ you not leaking flicks...
T- Yes they are. I've never leaked anyone's pics and I don't plan on it. If I was that person I couldve been exposed half the niggas that come at me on a daily basis. But I'm chillin. I'm too cool for that. ;)

CW- Stunt on playgirl...Stunt on.. @ you shining on niggas right now.. Same ones probably doing the dissing. Is it really 'just Twitter' for some of the folks you follow or this shit just a bit more in YOUR OBSERVATION?

T- It's never 'just twitter' ... These people out here fucking their followers, catching feelings, and having babies with em. Fuck all that 'it's just twitter' shit. It's still real life

CW- Tell these motherfuckers ONE MORE FUCKING TIME PLEASE... Aight, we are about to go a little deeper..Have you ever been 'propositioned' to be flown out by one of your followers? Would you go?

T- Oh of course. A couple of my followers want me in their city, but to be honest I don't take these niggas seriously. They just be talking. Making it sound good.

CW- Duly noted and good to hear. I see ya'll out here too. Putting your bids in. I ain't mad at cha- Pac. Aight LAST QUESTION...  Would you be open to a 'Tweet up' of some sorts involving your 'safe' followers? (Obviously not the assholes 'cause..well...they are assholes...lol)

T- Yeah I would. I'm all about having a good ass time. Smokin and drinking. No drama. Hell yeah I'd be down for that!!




CW- THANK YOU LOVE for putting up with my questions... I appreciate that. Hopefully, we put some bullshit to rest today, INFORMED SOME FOLKS and put others on notice outchea with this..




T- It was definitely not a problem doing this for your blog. You know im a big supporter so ill do anything for you & the blog. I just thank you for giving me the web space to show people who i really am in a way. I appreciate that. So Thank YOU! ;) ❤




* NOW YOU KNOW WE MUST BE COOL. I love her for that. @ revealing her weight. Secure woman right there. Fuck what you heard.

(Words) Dear Folks Who Want to The World to use 'The Rooney Rules' in their dating lives 'cause your Life sucked..

The Internet is a BEAUTIFUL PLACE. Lets make NO MISTAKE ABOUT THAT. I enjoy being on it. I enjoy meeting new folks, some that think JUST LIKE ME AND SOME WHO DO NOT. I THOROUGHLY ENJOY IT. I want to make that clear 'cause if I did not enjoy it, I wouldn't be on it to the extent that I am. Of course that part of the Internet is NOT what I am here to speak on today. I mean, what would be the fun in that? (Don't answer that...the one day I DO GET ON HERE TO DO JUST THAT THOUGH, I DON'T WANT TO HEAR ANY COMPLAINTS.. )

Everyone, RIGHTFULLY has something that they believe in STRONGLY. While I think that it is a GREAT THING even if I don't necessarily agree with what they believe in, I am NOT A FIRM BELIEVER IN 'Stand for something or you will fall for anything.'. Why?

'Cause a lot of you stand for BULLSHIT that's why! Which in turn is JUST AS BAD IF NOT WORSE THAN STANDING FOR NOTHING AT ALL. @ you pushing bullshit agendas and spreading it like it is the gospel. That's why. Standing for 'bullshit' just for the sake of standing for 'something' is probably one of the biggest COP OUTS 'we' (my people) perpetuate on this Earth. I abhor it but it isn't my 'call' to choose what you stand for. Just know that if it is 'my respect' you want, that isn't the way to get it. *



Back on topic though as far as the people one might meet on the Internet. There are folks out here FIGHTING FOR GOOD THINGS EVERY DAY. They have some FANTASTIC CAUSES. Equal rights for blacks. For minorities. For WOMEN. Justice this. Equality that. Making sure folks aren't reduced to a fetish....(record scratch)...


Yeah...you read that right. There are folks out here who are ADAMANT about folks being able to distinguish having a preference and having something they like turn into a fetish who will hit you with it EVERY DAY B. Every day. Looking for the 'one chink in a tweet/Facebook status/blog post' that they can 'spread open' to call someone  'out' on the things that THEY LIKE. Not that they person BOUGHT THEIR 'FETISH' TO THEM PERSONALLY. Oh no! This is STRAIGHT DIGGING through the trash to find that one item that wasn't 'put in the recycle bin' type stuff. @ folks doing this. THAT IS WHAT I WANT TO TALK ABOUT TODAY LADIES AND GENTLEMAN. This particular subject is just one of THE MANY SUBJECTS that end up being 'discussed' in the manner I am about to present to you on the daily by some of the folks you may encounter on the Internet. 


So what you are saying Mr. Blogger is that if I have something that I 'believe in' I should just keep it to myself huh? I should NOT DISCUSS IT or chime in when 'what I believe' is being challenged, misconstrued, misrepresented, or I otherwise feel folks aren't 'getting it'? Is that the message you are going to send Mr. Blogger? 'Cause if so, I don't wanna.....

WHOA THERE KIMASOBE ...not what I said..

 
























Of course you can chime in. It is a free country. You can discuss, defend, reiterate and do so to YOUR HEART'S CONTENT. Just understand this though. Some of you are FAR TOO JUDGMENTAL AND OVERBEARING WITH THAT SHIT and in turn YOU ARE GOING TO GET HEAT returned at you.

Look, I get that whatever 'cause/movement/etc' that you are out here in these social media tweets is PERSONAL for a lot of you. Some of you have even admitted as such. That is human nature. Understandable. Some of you take it too far though. @ the personal attacks I have seen you make on others. I don't follow a lot of you because of it (and vice versa as I have told many of you who will probably get your hands on this about yourselves on MORE than one occasion.) Shit is annoying.

Take for example the 'light skin'/damm near white thing'/interracial dating horse ya'll love to beat to death on the TL...For some of you , SHIT WAS REAL IN THE FIELD. You weren't getting 'chose' 'cause Becky & Stephanie were the flavor. You missed out on the 8th Grade Dinner Dance 'cause Qwon took Lightskinned  Keisha with the grey eyes and curly hair after chasing you down the Summer before to make 'that alone time ya'll had' special. Prom sucked because the star athlete you used to TUTOR so that HE COULD PLAY BALL, didn't ask you to Prom and went with ......(You know her name...) I GET IT. We ALL GET IT. That nigga wasn't SHIT. He did you wrong in some capacity (According to you anyway...) . SO DID EVERY OTHER BOY (girl) WHO NEVER CHOSE YOU. It happened. Nobody is DENYING that you were hurt by that. Here's the thing though..




WE DIDN'T DO IT. They did. As a result.....Since we know we really didn't do shit to you, no one person in their RIGHT MIND IS GOING TO GIVE YOU THE POWER TO BASICALLY DICTATE THAT THEY....



 'Rooney Rule'**   THEIR DATE/FB LIFE TO APPEASE YOU.  Fuck I look like, justifying SHIT to you over some shit I DIDN'T DO TO YOU? You have some nerve out here. I look like a stone cold idiot doing that. Take that shit back to the mofo who hurt you or got @ 'him' (her) or some shit. Leave good folks alone outchea. I didn't do shit to you. The folks on your TL didn't do anything to you. It was the folks in the past who did it. Go SEE THEM ABOUT IT. Or get on a couch and get some help. Shit. Nobody is out here about to 'interview candidates' for a job they aren't gonna get anyway. I mean how do you even decide that shit? What would be the rules on that? Is there a minimum/maximum # of young ladies one can have in the 'interview process' before it doesn't become 'playerish'. Be careful what you are wishing for out here ladies... Oh wait, I suppose if we did that then Steve's 90 day rule might...nevermind... (That's a WHOLE OTHER POST...)

 Stop running up on folks with that shit. Shit is tired. ESPECIALLY...in light of the fact that the 'niggas that do that wouldn't never get any of this anyway.." - You. 


What you out here crying over spilled milk that YOU WOULDN'T TOUCH WITH YOUR ENEMIES LIPS FOR ANYWAY? Riddle me that shit... 

This is coming from a DARK SKIN BLACK MAN who DEFINITELY wasn't in style during the 'Ricky Fountaine' era...So it isn't like I don't 'know what ya'll are talking about'. I won't feign ignorance. IT EXISTS. Gotta get in the game though folks and get over the past. I got over it. QUICKLY MIGHT I ADD. It is high time you did too... Who cares that you 'can't stand dudes that think dating a 'such and such' is an upgrade? Fuck you really gonna do about it? Date ALL OF THEM IF THEY DECIDE TO DATE YOU? No. You aren't. You will just find some other reason on your Kameela's*** ass list to write them off for anyway. So what is the big deal and why are you shoving that shit in folks face....DAILY?

It is even more hilarisad when I see folks who 'fit the stereotypes' denouncing it AND...AND... WAIT FOR IT.... going at ANY AND EVERYBODY WHO THEY THINK 'FITS' THE BILL. Got a white (really any woman who isn't DARK AND BLACK) woman? Don't let this person find out 'cause all of the sudden, she is in your mentions grilling you about 'what you like about your woman' like she REALLY FUCKING INTERESTED in ANY ANSWER YOU GIVE. Why? She has already made up her mind that you have 'fetish' tendencies and is waiting for you to say those famous words..


" I like her because she is different.." 

You could type in 'She is different in that she likes the things I like..." and the ONLY WORD HOMEGIRL is going to see is 'different'. Then you will get 'told about yourself' as she RTs you up and down her TL for all of her 'supporters' to come in to cosign with the 'See..I hate folks who do this....Why can't you just..." This is the BULLSHIT right here..lol




Here's the kicker..The very 'self hate' tag that folks like that THROW AROUND LIKE A DIRTY DISHRAG? It has permeated them. They HATE THEMSELVES. The hate is so bad that for most of them, they can't reconcile the fact that if someone likes them for their 'look' that it is OKAY. Some sad shit going on out here. @ folks looking TOO HARD FOR THE FLAW to see the flawlessness in someone's attraction to them.


So who cares if ole boy got a white girl. Or a Spanish girl. Or an Indian girl. Of if she is fucking a white dude... (Even though there isn't really much of an OUTWARD issue with that anymore to me anyway..@ the folks I know..) Fucks it mean to you REALLY? YOU WEREN'T CHECKING FOR HIM if you knew him. Hell the chances are PRETTY HIGH you were probably engaging in some 'segregation' tactics in regards to him in YOUR OWN RIGHT! @ whatever issues you had with him or folks like him. You can't be mad he/she looked elsewhere. These divisive tactics are AWFUL FAMILIAR though..Once upon a time, we were the ones getting discriminated on over silly shit. Scrutinized with a fine tooth comb for nothing. Seems we learned a lot from our oppressors. It shines through every day I tell ya...















And what is this shit I am hearing 'women' NOT LIKING TO BE CALLED 'FEMALES' and 'Men are never 'males'..'


https://twitter.com/#!/ArriannaMarie/status/194285182696693760

 I don't follow this person. Actually I don't even follow the person that RT'd (Dream Hampton) it which started the shit storm on my TL last night..



The discussion itself isn't the issue for me. You want to have that, COOL. Have away at it. The lies being told so that folks could 'sound right' was what kinda threw me off. It was the 'tone' it took as it got RT'D up and down my TL. The finger pointing started. The 'you have no right to speak on it' shit started. Folks became REALLY STANDOFFISH about it in one breath but STAYED QUESTIONING WHY IT COULDN'T BE 'DISCUSSED'. Hmmm, I wonder why... @ the attacking tone of the conversation. It was an ambush. Good to see that one male (oops...I addressed him as a male..I must NOW BE STONED TO DEATH AS IT COULD BE SEEN AS DEROGATORY..FOH with that shit..) spoke up on the fact that we DO IN FACT get addressed as 'males' all the time in a NEGATIVE fashion. By OURSELVES NO LESS... Here are some more examples though in case you feel like his experience is akin to seeing a pot of Gold or something..


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/matthew-lynch-edd/trayvon-martin-black-boys_b_1372866.html






 She said NEVER.. The argument isn't who has it 'worse' so don't come pulling that card over here. She said NEVER. Never doesn't mean some of the time, it means NEVER. Tell her to choose her words better next time.... Don't hit me with the 'You know what she meant..' either 'cause this ARTICLE HERE DOES SHOW MALES aren't seen positively at all a vast majority of the time (and sometimes with good reason honestly.)  so even if it is 'WORSE' or the struggle HAS been longer, there is a REAL STRUGGLE GOING ON RIGHT NOW THAT IS AFFLICTING OUR NEIGHBORHOODS IN A REAL WAY as well. The 'view of the relationship of a Father' as it pertains to being in his child's Life according to the court of law. **** Come into the courtroom down in the count. @ the 'male'.




http://www.news.com.au/opinion/men-fight-the-stereotype/story-e6frfs99-1111112629093


In particular this passage...


The research shows almost 70 per cent of social commentary on the male gender is unfavourable – portraying men as violent, sexually abusive, unable to be trusted with children, "deadbeat dads" and commitment-phobic.
In the largest Australian study of its kind, Dr Jim Macnamara analysed more than 2000 media articles and programs and found men were mostly positioned as villains, aggressors, perverts or philanderers.
Yes, well, any women's magazine will tell you that.
Male-bashing is a vital part of female bonding; it brings us together, gives us a common point of reference as well as something to complain about.
And the much maligned male so thoughtfully gives us so much material to choose from.
Affectionate bitching is one thing – the male bashing is now taking a more serious turn where boys are growing up in a world where they are faced with a distinct lack of role models.
According to Dr Macnamara, even the positive images of men in the media are delivered as a backhanded compliment with there being only one version of the "good men"; the sensitive metrosexual who is in touch with his feminine side.
Not much to choose from really; the unemotional, aggressive commitment freak or the moisturised, dithering doormat.
The media's limiting rendering of men is alarming says the University of Western Sydney academic because social policy works hand in hand with social stereotyping.
"Legislation is developed by government and largely driven by what is being said in society – it is already beginning to affect social policy if you look at child access and child custody issues.
"There is overwhelming discourse that men cannot be trusted with children – there is a lot of concern about men being alone in the company of a child."
Despite the tide of opinion positioning men as the perpetrators of crime, Dr Macnamara says when it comes to violence against children – women are often responsible.
"What we are doing is creating a society that believes 90 to 95 per cent of violence is committed by men and it's not true," he says.
"Research shows violence against children is more often committed by women – I'm not trying to push the blame back to women. I'm saying that as a society we need to look at the image that we are creating for young boys."

Read more: http://www.news.com.au/opinion/men-fight-the-stereotype/story-e6frfs99-1111112629093#ixzz1st7MeCeX

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So ya'll were saying again? Oh... @ men aren't ever looked at in a 'negative light' when the term 'male' is used.. You sure? I know many of you WHO HAVE WENT AGAINST THAT STATEMENT WHEN DISCUSSING YOUR HOMEBOY'S CUSTODY BATTLES.


Ya'll kill me out here. Some celeb RTs some shit, in a TOTALLY DIFFERENT CONTEXT than the one you tried to frame it in on YOUR TL and NOBODY is supposed to say shit? FOH...


As the song goes..



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*My respect isn't valued at any more than any other person's respect by the way. I'm not as pompous as some of you to believe that somehow, my respect will garner you this 'Worldly pass' into this mythical 'underworld' that some many of you clamor to be a part of....-_- . That wasn't said with any 'airs'. @ my respect.  So if you aren't seeking it, I'm not 'hurt'. Just as you shouldn't be if you don't fool with me and I am not seeking your 'respect'. I made the statement because so often, that is what I hear out of folks mouth...'I just want respect..folks don't have to like me but they will respect me.." That's not respect then. Respect is begat out of admiration. Not out of fear or dislike. I could give you the just due you deserve AND STILL NOT RESPECT YOU. Trust me. I've done it. The minute I could 'bury' someone who felt like that, I HAVE. You don't do things like that to folks you 'respect'...ya dig? Some of you need to stop niggarizing words and learn their TRUE MEANINGS..



**The Rooney Rule, established in 2003,^[1] requires National Football League teams to interview minority candidates for head coaching and senior football operation opportunities. It is often cited as an example of affirmative action. The Rule was established to ensure that minority coaches, especially African Americans, were considered for high-level coaching positions. Until 1979, Fritz Pollard was the only minority head coach in NFL history (which was during the league's early years in the 1920s) and by the time the Rule was implemented, only Tom Flores, Art Shell, Dennis Green, Ray Rhodes, Tony Dungy, and Herman Edwards had ever held head coaching jobs (Only Dungy and Edwards were actively head coaching at the time of the Rule's implementation, though Shell and Green would later return to the sidelines as head coaches). Dungy in particular had struggled for years before getting a head coaching job; he was often promoted as a head coaching candidate by Chuck Noll when Dungy was an assistant under Noll in the 1980s with the Steelers, but he would not become a head coach until 1996 when he took over the Tampa Bay Buccaneers.




***Never heard of Kameelah? Real World Boston.. Here's a GREAT POST ON IT..


 http://toughtyping.blogspot.com/2009/03/kameelah-list-do-you-have-one.html



****Not that every DAD IS OUT HERE BEING UPSTANDING. A lot do TRY THOUGH and they don't fight through this obstacle. Same way, some Mothers intend to let their kid's Father in their child's life and....well.....LIFE gets in the way @ feelings, the need to provide, PARENTAL PRESSURE, etc, etc...

(Words) Thinking too HIGHLY of your own 'respect'....

...

" I don't respect that fact that....(insert whatever the topic is)" 



I find this OVERUSED phrase to be HIGH COMEDY 89% of the time when I hear it. Why?

1. Usually folks speaking on whatever the subject is HAVE NO SAY IN THE MATTER AT HAND. In English, their 'respect' = ZERO on the scale of how things will turn out.

2. The folks who say this are usually the main ones who swear they don't give a FUCK ABOUT WHAT ANYONE HAS TO SAY ABOUT THEM. So the question begs, 'Why should the person they don't respect care about what they think?"

3. See #1 I will dumb it down for you this time though. Nobody cares B. @ whether you respect it or not. At least not folks who have THEIR OWN MIND. I don't give a shit if you don't 'respect' such and such... I know (and he/she does too) that you can't DO A DAMM THING ABOUT WHATEVER GAIN THEY ARE GETTING THAT YOU 'SO CALLED DON'T RESPECT. So basically you are pissing in the wind and getting wet. @ how you make yourself sound to others. That goes double time for whoever 'agrees' with you. Ya'll are just pissing in the wind getting wet together is all. Shoot it in the air and call it rain if you like but I see where it is coming from. It is piss all day partner. @ 'the source' .


I think that a lot of you don't know the meaning of the word respect honestly. For some of you it means 'fear' which is a shame because scared people do SOME DESPERATE THINGS TO STAY ALIVE. If one is scared of you, the MINUTE..THE ABSOLUTE SECOND..THAT THEY CAN GET YOU UP OUTTA HERE..IN ANY SHAPE FORM OR FASHION..THEY WILL. Think about that. Just take a minute. Think of the bully who gets stood up to by that one BRAVE SOUL. The MINUTE HE GOES DOWN, ALL OF HIS VICTIMS START ATTACKING HIM. Kinda like that.  All scared folks aren't meek and there is no amount of 'He/she wasn't built like anyway' that can BRING FOLKS BACK once a scared person does things 'normally reserved for live niggas' if you get what I mean... Keep trying to 'scare' folks into respect. You will run into the RIGHT PERSON (or the wrong situation) and lose half your life (or maybe all of it depending on who, what, where and why..) End up on a t-shirt or with limited visitation. All because you wanted to be 'respected'. Respect is not that ya'll. Don't know how else to say it.

These thoughts have led me to this...


Expecting shit from people that you don't respect and then having the audacity to wonder why they won't do shit for you....


What Part Of The Game Is This? (WPOTGIT). So lets get this straight. You don't 'respect them'. You think they are soft, whined their way into their position, perhaps fucked their way there, whatever, whatever, etc, etc... You have MADE IT KNOWN YOU DON'T LIKE THEM. Every chance you get you tell someone...

"I don't respect them..." 

....and then you want to turn around and ask this say this shit..



"I don't understand why they don't want to help/do/etc this that and the third... for....." 


HELLO!- (Herm Edwards voice) You don't think for ONE MINUTE THAT FOLKS CAN'T PICK UP ON WHEN YOU DON'T FUCK WITH THEM? Come on man, wake THEE FUCK UP. I know the niggas that 'Don't respect me' and I will NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER give them shine on this shit here. Ever.  Nor will I EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER expect shit from them. I don't care 'how much they have changed' to a certain extent in some situations*


You really think people are that stupid? You really think that your 'hood smarts'** are gonna get you over on folks to the point that they don't know when they are being 'used'? Not everyone NEEDS TO BE ACCEPTED JACK. Remember, you don't 'respect that person'. Guarantee you there is a line of folks who feel the same way about that person. You wanna know why? It isn't because you are 'right about them', I'll tell you that. It is because THEY KNOW WHEN FOLKS ARE BEING PHONY AND HAVE PROMPTLY DISTANCED THEMSELVES FROM SAID PEOPLE. You think you are the first person who has expressed 'no respect' in regards to them but has turned RIGHT BACK AROUND AND DEMANDED SOMETHING OF THEM? No.  In other words, that game you are trying to 'run', they've peeped it, probably run it themselves and DEFINITELY know how not to fall for it. So you can try to 'have your opinion about them' yet 'demand something from them' if you like but the truth of the matter is they don't have to do shit nor do they need your 'respect'. They are usually where you want to be. Otherwise, you wouldn't be wasting time talking about how you 'don't respect them'. If they are 'truly' as meaningless as you say, stop GIVING THEM ENERGY and go around them. Period. 



Some of you think WAY TOO HIGHLY OF YOUR RESPECT. Like it is the 'golden ticket' to something. I don't want to make it seem like your opinion doesn't matter but....well...IT DOESN'T IN CERTAIN SITUATIONS. That's just the truth of the matter. Yes, that is even TRUE IN A SITUATION LIKE BEING A 'FAN'...


...YES BEING A FAN OF SOMEONE DICTATES SOME THINGS BUT YOU ARE one person (or a group of folks if you have folks who permeate your ears and thoughts with like minded things. ) So what if you know 30 niggas that think Jay-Z sucks.. Or Lebron is soft. Or that Barack isn't shit. So what? You do the math as far as how many folks DON'T THINK THAT WAY ABOUT THOSE FOLKS. I'll let you do it. Here's a hint..(whispers) 


YOU AREN'T IN THE MAJORITY PLAIR... 


So while all YOU MAY HEAR IS, 'They suck....blah blah blah..' due to the fact that your whole circle agrees, you are in the minority in most cases. Which makes you....say it with me now...




A NON FACTOR. 


Say it again REALLY SLOW WITH ME. A non factor...


Now you can RUN AROUND AND DEBATE cats left and right about it and try to change their minds, one fan at a time. Be my guest fam. That doesn't change the fact that until they do something that their 'fans' don't like, you will still be....say it with me again...




A NON FACTOR... 






Again, some of you think your opinions and views are worth a little more than they are. I kinda wish you would stop telling me about who you 'respect' and don't truthfully. I don't care. I just don't. It isn't going to change MY MIND ABOUT THEM until they do something to ME. Plenty of folks you hang around I have ZERO respect AND I DON'T HOLD IT BACK OUT OF FEAR. I hold it back because it doesn't matter. They are going to do them and it doesn't affect me.


Hell, you could say the same about me too in regards to thinking 'highly of myself' if you like..Just remember though.....




























YOU READ THIS WHOLE FUCKING POST so I must be doing something right. 

(I'll let that sink in for a minute before I continue 'cause I am not done...) 




Oh and let me address this 'groupie' shit as it pertains TO IT PERMEATING INTO BEING A GROUPIE FOR FOLKS WHO DON'T EVEN LIKE YOU OR WHO YOU DON'T LIKE. Also known as: 

"TRYING TO IMPRESS NIGGAS WHO DON'T GIVE ONE FUCK ABOUT YOU SYNDROME. "


What is this shit all about? You don't like (insert name) yet you care about him seeing you SHINING AND DOING GOOD TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS? What kinda GIRL SHIT IS THAT? Ya'll lacking love like THAT OUT HERE? Girls do shit like that fam. What is that shit? You think I give a fuck about what some nigga from WHEREVER who I know wouldn't like me FROM JUMP thinks? @ the type who don't like folks unless they are EXACTLY LIKE THEY ARE. Really? No fucks given dawg. Fuck that nigga. If he wants to not like me off the break over some shit like that, fuck him. (and her too) 


This goes back to that 'expecting something from folks you don't respect shit too'...'Cause I have had niggas like that 'ask me for shit' like I didn't know they don't 'fuck with me or my kind' like that. Oh NOW YOU WANNA FUCK WITH ME or at least act like it? Nope. You don't care about me so why should I care about you? Fuck that shit. Rot in Hell dawg. Sorry. That's just how I feel. Now I'm not going to go OUT OF MY WAY to make bad things happen but I'm not sticking my neck out for someone who I know doesn't like me. For what? I'm SURELY not going to do things that are 'out of my character' for said folks either just so they can 'respect me'. Fuck them and their respect. I treat them just like I do the white folks that don't like me. They are one AND THE SAME TO ME. Is that clear enough for you? So if you are reading this and you THINK I MIGHT BE TALKING ABOUT YOU, yes I see you on the same level as a racist ass white person. Hope you are proud. @ the things some of you take pride in. 






Just remember people.. Your 'respect' can be 'earned' but lets not get out here and act like your 'respect' is doing BIG THINGS OUT HERE. Even if you are in a position to help. Someone with the knowledge and will (and some Grace) can AND WILL WORK AROUND YOU. It has been done. If you aren't in the position to 'help' folks, maybe one day you will be. LOSE THE SUPERIOR ATTITUDE though or your reign on the top will be short like leprechauns - Biggie

Lets be a little more 'humane' about things. Maybe then, some of the things I said up top (even my OWN FEELINGS) may change. I am an 'extremely nice person' by nature. Unfortunately, in the words of my boy 'Everyone isn't nice.." so thus I have adopted tactics and defense mechanisms to combat that. Just know you aren't the only ones out here with them... That's all I am saying.




*There are some I have seen the growth in people and decided not to hold 15-23 year old them against the 'grown and improved them'. Not if the nigga is still acting like he/she DID BACK THEN THOUGH.. Nope. I don't owe you shit. I don't care where we are from, who you are, WHO OUR MUTUAL FRIENDS ARE NOW or what RELATION you might be to me. Straight like that. You don't respect me, I'm not HELPING YOU do shit directly and maybe even not INDIRECTLY IF I FEEL THAT STRONGLY ABOUT IT. Take it how you wanna...


 **Many a survival tactic was born out of plight. Some of you need to realize that 'plight' doesn't always = poor though. Folks have been in detrimental situations that may not look like 'YOUR SITUATION' and learned the SAME LESSONS that you have. You gotta stop thinking people haven't just because they didn't live where you did (or somewhere similar. ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE OF COLOR. Racism is alive and well in case you have been living under a FUCKING ROCK. We've all had to 'overcome shit' Deal with it. Some of us learned it on a 'block'. Some of us learned it via 'segregation' amongst folks who DID NOT WANT US OUT WHERE THEY WERE AT. Some of us HAVE (GASP) a mixture of the two experiences.